Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha
Ken and Tabatha Claytor share tools and principles from God's Word to help couples grow in love with God and each other. Drawing from 26 years of marriage, they discuss overcoming common relationship challenges like communication issues and financial pressures. The podcast aims to provide practical advice for improving marriages and relationships.
Episodes
Five Practical Ways To Care For Your Husband With Faith And Respect
Send us Fan MailWhat if the next breakthrough in your marriage is something simple you can do this week at home, not a huge speech or a dramatic reset? We sit down for a Valentine’s week conversation that gets practical fast, sharing five real-world ways a wife can care for her husband in a way that changes the atmosphere of the whole house.We start with honor, because respect is not fluff, it is
The Number One Thing Wives Need
Send us Fan MailWhat if the biggest breakthrough in your marriage is waiting on the other side of real leadership at home? Ken and Tabitha Claytor sit down for a direct, honest conversation aimed at husbands, future husbands, and anyone who wants a healthier Christian marriage. We talk to the man who’s doing his best and also to the man who’s stuck, tired, isolated, or never had a model for what f
God’s Design For Sex
Send us Fan MailMost couples don’t break because they stop loving each other. They break because they stop feeling connected, and one of the fastest places that disconnection shows up is sexual intimacy. We go straight at the uncomfortable question many married Christians whisper but rarely say out loud: why does sex in marriage so often drift into frustration, avoidance, pressure, or a roommate v
How to Fight for Your Marriage Together
Send us Fan MailWhat if the tension in your home isn’t proof you married the wrong person, but proof you’re fighting the wrong enemy? We get real about spiritual warfare in marriage, and we start with a mindset shift that can change everything: it’s not husband versus wife, it’s two people standing together against division, bitterness, and deception.We open up about our own early years, including
How To Save A Marriage With Better Thoughts
Send us Fan MailA marriage can look fine on the outside while quietly getting torn down from the inside by one habit: a critical inner dialogue. We get honest about what happens when you replay a moment, assume the worst, and start building a case against the person you love. If you’ve ever thought “What did they mean by that?” and felt the rabbit hole open up, this conversation gives you a better
Why Keeping A List Of Wrongs Kills Intimacy And How To Let It Go
Send us Fan MailKeeping a mental list of your spouse’s mistakes feels like self-protection, but it quietly turns your home into a courtroom. When every argument pulls out old receipts, intimacy dies, progress feels impossible, and “I forgive you” starts sounding like a trap. We get honest about what list keeping really is: mentally recording mistakes, replaying past failures, storing hurt for futu
Seven Biblical Steps To Turn A Bad Marriage Around
Send us Fan MailA bad marriage can feel like you’re trapped in the same house with a stranger, stuck between “I don’t want to leave” and “I can’t do this anymore.” We go straight at that tension with humility and authority, because we’ve lived it. After 26 years of marriage and a rough start that nearly ended in divorce, we’ve learned that a struggling marriage is often less about “the wrong perso
How To Heal Emotional Wounds Before They Harden
Send us Fan MailHurt has a way of sneaking into every relationship, and if we don’t deal with it, it doesn’t just fade. It hardens. Ken and Tabitha Claytor get honest about how emotional wounds, unmet expectations, betrayal, and disappointment can quietly turn into bitterness that reshapes your personality, drains your joy, and poisons your marriage, friendships, and faith.We talk through what hur
Spiritual Warfare 101 | How The Enemy Targets Believers And How To Fight Back
Send us Fan MailSome battles don’t start in your schedule, your bank account, or your relationships. They start as a thought you never challenge, a fear you keep feeding, or an offense you refuse to release. We talk about spiritual warfare with a steady head and a strong spine: not blaming the devil for every problem, but also not pretending the enemy isn’t real or organized.We walk through what s
Breaking Ungodly Soul Ties | How to Break Soul Ties & Be FREE!
Send us Fan MailWe name the difference between healthy and unhealthy soul ties, then get honest about why certain relationships keep pulling us back even when they hurt. We walk through spiritual and practical steps to break ungodly connections and close with a renouncing prayer for healing and freedom. • defining soul ties as emotional, mental, and will-level bonding • healthy soul ties in marria
David's Heart | Developing a Heart That God Promotes
Send us Fan MailWe talk about why God promotes trustworthy people over simply gifted people, using David’s life to show what a heart after God actually looks like under pressure. We unpack honor, repentance, private integrity, and worship as the habits that keep your heart clean when influence grows. • David’s origin story as the overlooked shepherd anointed for leadership • why time with God shap
How To Heal A Broken Marriage
Send us Fan MailA marriage can look “fine” on paper and still feel dead in the day to day. If you’re living in the same house but the air feels cold, the talks are short, trust is thin, and intimacy feels complicated, we want to give you real hope and real tools.We tell the truth about our own early years, including the season when Ken privately planned a divorce, the confusion and immaturity that
Hypocrisy Is Keeping You Stuck (Here’s How to Break Free) | “God Wants The Real You”
Send us Fan MailWe define hypocrisy as stage acting and name how it keeps us bound when our image matters more than our integrity. We connect the cost to marriage, family, and spiritual witness, then walk through clear steps and prayers that help us live honest and free. • Defining hypocrisy as pretending outwardly without inward growth • Freedom versus bondage through shame, guilt, insecurity, fe
One of The Biggest Relationship Killers: Blame Shifting
Send us Fan MailWe get real about how blame shifting turns a struggling marriage into a dead-end and why owning your part is the first move toward change. We connect Scripture, self-awareness, and practical habits so you can stop living as the victim in every story and start growing on purpose. • why every struggling relationship has blame shifting somewhere • what “own your part” looks like even
The Kind Of Love A Wife Deserves
Send us Fan MailA lot of men were never taught how to be a husband. You can be loyal, hardworking, and faithful, yet still leave your wife feeling alone in the same house. We get honest about the gap between providing and loving, and we talk about why isolation is one of the fastest ways a man loses his confidence, his clarity, and his ability to lead well.Ken and Tabitha Claytor unpack biblical m
Why Am I Still Single? | What If Waiting Is God's Protection
Send us Fan Mail“Why am I still single?” can feel like a question with teeth, especially when everyone else’s highlight reel is scrolling past your face. We get honest about the pressure, the loneliness, and the quiet fear that something must be wrong with you, then we confront the biggest lie head-on: you are not unworthy, undesirable, or behind. We believe your relationship status does not deter
You Don’t Have To Settle For A Bad Sex Life | God's Design For Sex in Marriage
Send us Fan MailWe challenge the quiet norm of “sucky sex” in marriage and lay out why God designs sex for intimacy, connection, and real enjoyment without shame. We share our own healing journey from trauma, body insecurity, and bad beliefs to a healthier sex life built on safety, communication, and mutual pleasure.\n\n• why many married couples settle for frustration and distance\n• God’s design
How To Get Promoted (What Bosses Look For)
Send us Fan MailThe promotion you want might be carrying more than you think. We get honest about what “next level” really means, because promotion is not only a raise or a new title, it is pressure, visibility, responsibility, and accountability. If you’ve ever watched someone move up faster than you, felt stuck in your role, or wondered what leaders are actually looking for, this conversation is
How Unresolved Offense Destroys Love
Send us Fan MailPeople don’t wake up one morning and decide they don’t love their spouse. What we see far more often is something quieter and more dangerous: a hurt that never gets resolved, a story we keep replaying, and a wall that goes up brick by brick until the house feels cold. We’re naming that enemy directly, unresolved offense, and we’re telling the truth about what it does to marriage, i
What To Do When People Don’t Like You
Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Doing Life with Ken & Tabatha, we talk about how to deal with rejection, criticism, and being misunderstood — especially when you’re trying to follow God and build something meaningful.If you’ve ever wondered:• Why don’t they like me?• Why do people talk about you when you’re doing good?• How do you keep your confidence when people criticize you?This conversa
5 Reasons Christians Should Re-Think Alcohol
Send us Fan MailWhat if the line between “okay” and “too far” isn’t a line worth walking? We open up about our 24-year sober journey and the moment a mentor reframed the question from “Is it allowed?” to “Is it wise for a king?” From there, the conversation turns honest and practical—how alcohol blurred judgment, complicated leadership, and stole the very peace it promised. We dig into Scripture’s
Submission & Faithfulness: God’s Path to Promotion
Send us Fan MailWhat if the real path to promotion looks nothing like hustle culture promises? We take on two charged words—submission and faithfulness—and show how they form a powerful, practical way of life that advances marriages, teams, and callings. This isn’t about losing your voice. It’s about choosing God’s order, serving with strength, and becoming the kind of person heaven can trust.We s
7 Money Habits to End Marriage Stress
Send us Fan MailMoney pressure has a way of sneaking into a marriage and turning simple conversations into fights. We open up about our early years—over $100k in debt, sleepless nights, and two very different backgrounds—and share the seven habits that helped us replace anxiety with unity. This is a practical, faith-filled roadmap: one shared plan, a zero-based budget, the 10-10-80 priority rule,
The Danger of Casual Christianity
Send us Fan MailLukewarm faith feels easy—until it costs you power, joy, and purpose. We get honest about casual Christianity, why it’s so common, and how to move from a Sunday habit to a life that actually carries the presence of God. Ken shares his past as a “Christian atheist”—believing in God but living like He didn’t exist—and how that exposed the gap between form and power. Together, we walk
Stop Wasting Your 20’s | 5 Dating Rules We Wish We Knew
Send us Fan MailDating does not have to be confusing, exhausting, or expensive. We’re pulling back the curtain on five practical rules that protect your heart, save your time, and set you up for a marriage that can actually thrive. From defining non‑negotiables to reading red flags without second‑guessing yourself, we walk through the mindsets and habits that turn your twenties into a launchpad in
Quit Porn For Good! A Faith Based Plan
Send us Fan MailGET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.🎟 And don’t miss Alive Confe
Don’t Settle For An “OK” Marriage
Send us Fan MailSettling for “okay” feels safe, but it quietly shrinks your marriage. We dig into why cruise control robs connection and how a few intentional shifts can turn your relationship into a lifelong adventure. From writing a simple family mission to scheduling a 20-second hug, we share the small, repeatable habits that build warmth, trust, and momentum across every season.We get real abo
Miracle Season: Creating An Atmosphere That Attracts God
Send us Fan MailGET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.🎟 And don’t miss Alive Confe
10 Things You Must Know To See Lasting Change This Year
Send us Fan MailResolutions powered by adrenaline rarely survive February. We’re after something deeper: a year that actually changes because your spirit leads, your mind renews, and your habits align with what God already says about you. Together we unpack why identity comes before intensity, how to let the old you die without shame, and the simple daily choices that turn conviction into consiste
Why Fast? | Benefits of Fasting
Send us Fan MailReady to trade comfort for clarity? We’re kicking off the year with a 21-day journey that goes beyond skipping meals and straight into a deeper pursuit of God. Fasting without prayer is just a diet; fasting with prayer, scripture, and generosity becomes a spiritual reset that reshapes your days, your decisions, and your desires.We share real stories and useful steps. Tabatha talks
Our Best Godly Wisdom
Send us Fan MailReady to stop making resolutions that fizzle and start setting goals that actually change your life? Ken and Tabatha dig into the difference between hype and habits, laying out a practical, faith-forward way to plan your year with clarity, courage, and consistency. We talk about why most resolutions collapse—no strategy, no steady will, too much emotion—and how to replace them with
Our Best Sex & Intimacy Advice
Send us Fan MailGET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.🎟 And don’t miss Alive Confe
Our Best Marriage Advice
Send us Fan MailWhat if the gap between tension and tenderness is smaller than you think? We revisit a candid conversation about the real work of marriage—how to share the load at home, protect each other’s energy, and bring intimacy back from the brink without losing yourself in the process. No gloss, no clichés, just two people telling the truth about weight, pace, and the everyday choices that
How We Saved Our Marriage + Live Q&A With Real Couples
Send us Fan MailGET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.🎟 And don’t miss Alive Confe
The #1 Mistake Singles Make in Choosing a Partner
Send us Fan MailDating with wisdom starts by turning your list into a mirror. We talk candidly about why so many singles overvalue appearance and chemistry, then feel blindsided after the wedding when character gaps show up at full volume. Attraction matters, but it won’t hold a marriage together. What does? Shared faith, proven integrity, and the humble skills that make peace during conflict.We b
3 Things to Do When You Feel Far From God
Send us Fan MailWhen your heart whispers “God feels far,” what if the real invitation is to come closer? We open up about seasons of pain, busyness, and spiritual immaturity and show how a felt distance doesn’t mean God has moved. From battling cancer to navigating marriage stress, we trace the path back to peace and explain a simple framework that helps you reconnect: return to His presence daily
5 Ways to Hear God’s Voice Clearly in Your Life
Send us Fan MailWhat if hearing God was less about chasing a moment and more about walking in a steady conversation? We unpack five reliable ways to discern God’s voice—Scripture, the Spirit’s inner witness, wise community, peace that umpires your choices, and the clarity of open-and-closed doors—so you can move with confidence and courage.We share personal stories of guidance in marriage, ministr
Butterfly Love From Infatuation to Real Love
Send us Fan MailButterflies don’t build marriages—choices do. We open up about the rush of infatuation, the friction of the fight for power, and the quiet strength of mature love, weaving our 26-year story through the science, the pitfalls, and the simple practices that help couples grow. You’ll hear why dopamine and oxytocin make those early days feel like a dream, how cortisol and stress twist s
5 Dating Red Flags Every Christian Should Watch Out For
Send us Fan MailDating doesn’t have to feel like a guessing game. We break down five clear red flags every Christian should watch for and show how trusting God, not the crowd, changes who you choose and how you choose. From spiritual alignment to character under pressure, we pull back the curtain on the patterns that predict a healthy marriage—or a painful one.We start with the heart of it all: if
4 Keys to Stop Wasting Time & Make Every Day Count with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Send us Fan MailWe unpack how an eleven-day journey became forty years and why our schedules often repeat the same loop. Four practical keys help us redeem time, seize kairos moments, and align daily choices with what lasts.• the Exodus loop as a mirror for wasted time• screen time, reruns, indecision and hidden drains• numbering our days with humility and clarity• trusting God’s hand over our tim
From Routine to Romance: Ignite Your Relationship Again | Doing Life with Ken & Tabatha
Send us Fan MailHas your relationship started to feel more like routine than romance? 😬 You’re not alone — most couples hit seasons where the spark fades and connection feels distant. But it doesn’t have to stay that way.In this episode, Pastors Ken & Tabatha Claytor get real about what causes relationships to lose their spark and share 5 practical ways to bring it back — emotionally, spiritua
Healing a Broken Heart with Ken & Tabatha Claytor
Send us Fan MailSome wounds don’t just hurt—they rearrange your world. We open up about betrayal in its many forms—breakups, family fractures, church hurt, even the quiet feeling that God didn’t show up—and we offer a path forward that’s both honest and hopeful. Without glossing over pain, we lay out five keys for healing: tell the truth about the wound, anchor your identity in God, choose forgive
The Number One Secret to a Lasting Marriage with Doing Life Ken and Tabatha
Send us Fan MailWhat if the temperature of your home could rise with one daily habit? After two rocky years at the start of our 26-year marriage, we learned that appreciation—not grand gestures—warms a cold house, heals silent nights, and makes a marriage last. We unpack how keeping a short memory, honoring each other’s roles, and practicing specific, daily gratitude turned us from scorekeepers in
7 Signs They Are Not The One with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Send us Fan MailEver find yourself ignoring relationship red flags because your heart is saying "yes" when your gut is screaming "no"? In this revealing episode, Ken and Tabatha Claytor draw from their 26 years of marriage and ministry experience to shine a light on the seven unmistakable signs that someone isn't right for you—regardless of how strong your feelings might b
Processing the Death of Charlie Kirk — With Faith & Truth
Send us Fan MailThe assassination of Charlie Kirk has sent shockwaves through America, revealing deep divisions not just in politics, but within the church itself. In this raw, unscripted conversation, Ken and Tabatha offer a perspective you might not have considered – one that bridges understanding between drastically different viewpoints.As Ken shares, "Everything changes when it comes to s
How to Love Your Spouse When You Don’t Like Them with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Send us Fan MailHave you ever found yourself loving your spouse but not particularly liking them in certain moments? That light switch they never flip off, those socks perpetually abandoned on the floor, or the crumbs consistently left on the counter – these small irritations can feel surprisingly monumental in marriage.In this heartfelt and humor-filled conversation, we unpack the critical distin
Unlocking a Spirit-Fueled Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Send us Fan MailMarriage can be beautiful, but it can also be incredibly challenging. In our case, the first two years were some of the hardest. What transformed our struggling relationship into a thriving partnership wasn't better communication or date nights—it was supernatural power.Many believers are missing a crucial element in their spiritual lives and marriages: the baptism of the Holy
Your Spouse Isn’t the Enemy: How to Fight for Your Marriage Together
Send us Fan MailHave you ever felt like your marriage was under attack? You might be right—but the attacker isn't your spouse.When Ken and Tabatha Claytor stood at the altar 26 years ago, they had no idea their marriage would nearly end within two years. What saved them wasn't marriage counseling or communication techniques (though those helped). It was recognizing the spiritual warfare
Why You Should Stop Arguing Over the Little Things with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Send us Fan MailWhat if the secret to a thriving marriage isn't found in solving every problem, but in choosing which problems actually matter? Drawing from 24 years of marriage experience, we reveal why "not sweating the small stuff" might be the relationship superpower you've been overlooking.Remember your wedding day? The birth of your children? The special celebrations? Of
When to Hold On and When to Let Go: Navigating Life's Pivotal Moments
Send us Fan MailHave you ever faced a moment when everything you were working toward seemed to hit a wall? That intersection of disappointment and decision is exactly what we're diving into today as we explore the powerful concepts of pivoting and rebounding.Life rarely follows a straight line. Dreams get derailed, plans fall apart, and sometimes what seemed like the perfect path suddenly bec
Five Keys to Save Your Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Send us Fan MailMarriages don't break overnight, and they aren't restored in a day either. In this raw and revealing conversation, Ken and Tabatha share the five transformative keys that saved their once-broken relationship and built the foundation for their marriage journey."Locate where you are" begins their practical framework—because you can't navigate to Macy's w
How to study the Bible? With Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Send us Fan MailThe secret weapon sitting on your shelf might be collecting dust. When was the last time you actually opened your Bible and studied it with purpose? In this powerful conversation, Ken and Tabatha tackle one of the most fundamental yet overlooked aspects of Christian life - how to develop a meaningful relationship with Scripture.Christians often struggle with Bible study, feeling in
Grace to Self: Breaking Free from Self-Condemnation
Send us Fan MailThe way you talk to yourself matters more than you might realize. Have you ever caught yourself saying things to your own reflection that you'd never dream of saying to someone else? In this deeply personal episode, we explore the transformative power of extending "Grace to Self" and how this simple practice can revolutionize your mental, spiritual, and even physical
Waiting Until Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Send us Fan MailWe explore God's design for intimacy within marriage and share eight essential principles for newlyweds navigating sexual expectations versus reality after the wedding day.• Understanding God's purpose for sex: procreation, enjoyment, and intimacy between husband and wife• Recognizing that great intimacy takes time, communication, and patience to develop• Being patient wi
The Art of Dating: Five Essential Do's and Don'ts
Send us Fan MailStruggling with dating in today's confusing landscape? Ken and Tabatha draw from their marriage to deliver straight-talking wisdom about what actually works in relationships. "You got to be friends first," Ken emphasizes, highlighting how many couples rush into relationships without genuinely liking each other. This foundation of friendship—actually enjoying each oth
Protecting Your Marriage from Infidelity
Send us Fan MailWhat happens when the unthinkable creeps into your relationship? The answers might surprise you. After counseling countless couples through the aftermath of infidelity, we've discovered that affairs rarely "just happen" – they're the result of small compromises that accumulate over time.Drawing from both personal and professional experience, we reveal how good p
Beyond Infatuation: Three Critical Questions for Lasting Marriage
Send us Fan MailWhat critical questions should you ask before saying "I do"? With half of all marriages ending in divorce despite everyone believing theirs will last forever, these three game-changing questions could save your relationship from becoming another statistic.The marriage journey transforms us in ways we never anticipate. The first essential question recognizes this reality:
How to Avoid Lies, Cover Ups, and Living a Double Life
Send us Fan MailAuthenticity is becoming increasingly rare in our carefully curated world. While many struggle to present perfect images of themselves online and offline, Ken and Tabatha tackle the transformative power of radical honesty.They introduce the HOT principle—Honest, Open, Transparent—as the foundation for truly meaningful relationships, whether in marriage, friendship, business, or min
10 ways to a stronger marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Send us Fan MailGET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.🎟 And don’t miss Alive Confe
A Compelling Future | Your Best Days Are Ahead Of You
Send us Fan MailGET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.🎟 And don’t miss Alive Confe
Marriage Without Intimacy: Is It Too Late?
Send us Fan Mail"How often should married couples have sex?" It's the question many ask but few discuss openly. In this refreshingly candid conversation, Ken and Tabatha break through the awkwardness to address what happens when physical intimacy fades in marriage.Drawing from 24 years of marriage experience, they challenge conventional wisdom about bedroom dynamics with their revol
Burnout: Letting go of the fear of burnout
Send us Fan MailThe phrase "burnout" has become a buzzword, almost a badge of honor in some circles, but what if our fear of burnout is actually preventing us from discovering our true potential? In this eye-opening conversation, we challenge the prevailing narrative around burnout and offer a fresh perspective on stress, capacity, and growth.Drawing from personal experiences, we disting
Sexless Marriage? Why Intimacy Fades & How to Reignite It
Send us Fan MailFeeling the chill in your marriage bedroom? You're not alone. In this raw and honest episode, Ken and Tabatha break down the walls of silence surrounding sexless marriages, offering hope and practical wisdom from their 25-year journey together.Marriage isn't always sexy – especially when life throws curveballs like career stress, parenting demands, health challenges, and
How to help your depressed spouse? Practical tips for tough times
Send us Fan MailThe crushing weight of depression doesn't just affect the person diagnosed—it transforms marriages, reshaping how partners interact and survive together. Having walked this path ourselves, we're pulling back the curtain on what it truly takes to support a spouse battling the darkness of depression.Tabatha shares her 12-year journey through severe depression that began in
5 Godly Traits to Look for in a Wife
Send us Fan MailHave you ever wondered why so many marriages fall apart even though they started off great? A lot of it comes down to what people focus on when choosing who to marry.In this honest and real conversation, we talk about 5 important qualities every man should look for in a wife—things that go deeper than just looks or money. We even share real stories from men (like barbers!) who said
Believers in Business: 4 Biblical Principles for Godly Success
Send us Fan MailWhat happens when faith meets entrepreneurship? For many believers, there's an unnecessary tension between pursuing business success and honoring God. But what if prosperity with purpose is exactly what God intended?Ken and Tabatha Claytor bring a refreshing perspective to the intersection of faith and business, drawing from their experiences as successful entrepreneurs before
Single, Saved & Over It - Believing God for Spouse Without Settling
Send us Fan MailGET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.🎟 And don’t miss Alive Confe
Recognizing and Overcoming Emotional Hurt: Steps to Healing
Send us Fan MailWhat do you do when someone wounds you deeply? The reality is that emotional hurt is part of the human experience, but far too many people remain trapped in cycles of pain, resentment, and withdrawal long after the initial injury. In this candid and powerful conversation, Ken and Tabatha expose what they call a "hurt epidemic" sweeping through communities and churches wor
Top 10 Things to Do Before Marriage | Maximize Your Single Season
Send us Fan MailTen powerful strategies every single person needs to hear about preparing for future relationships while fully embracing their current season. This candid conversation cuts through common misconceptions about singleness, offering practical wisdom that balances spiritual growth with real-world relationship readiness.We start by addressing the comparison trap that leaves many singles
Making Marriage Work | 3 essential tips for a stronger relationship
Send us Fan MailWhat happens when a marriage teeters on the edge of collapse? Ken and Tabatha Claytor don't hold back as they reveal the raw truth about their first two years of marriage—when Ken had already planned to divorce Tabitha and she was battling severe depression. This powerful episode takes you on their 25-year journey from those desperate early days to the thriving relationship th
How to stop fighting over small stuff?
Send us Fan MailWould you want to live with you? This powerful question lies at the heart of Ken and Tabatha's wisdom-packed conversation about marriage and relationships. Drawing from over 24 years of marriage experience, they tackle the essential principle that life is simply too short to sweat the small stuff.The couple explores how our memories work – we remember wedding days and children
Navigating Grief: A Guide to Overcoming Loss and Finding Healing
Send us Fan MailFacing the death of a loved one can shatter our world and challenge our deepest beliefs. When Ken's mother passed away after a four-year battle with cancer, he found himself wrestling with profound theological questions. Despite believing in divine healing and standing on promises from Scripture, his mom transitioned to heaven at age 69, leaving him to navigate complex emotion
10 Ways to Be the CEO of Your Home & Strengthen Your Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Send us Fan MailA focus on becoming a Chief Encouragement Officer can need positive transformations in household dynamics. Understanding the CEO role expands beyond business concepts into personal relationships. • Discussing the significance of encouragement in building strong marriages • Highlighting the need for positivity over authority in families • Understanding encouragement as an integral p
Achieve Healthy Living: Simple Strategies for Getting in Shape Despite Challenges
Send us Fan MailEmbark on a journey toward better health in this enlightening episode! We dive deep into the struggles and triumphs of achieving a healthy lifestyle, emphasizing the need for realistic goal setting and self-compassion along the way. Through engaging anecdotes and practical insights, we encourage listeners to embrace the discomfort that comes with change and to view it as a stepping
I love you, but you're annoying: Marriage Confessions with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Send us Fan MailEvery marriage experiences annoyance, but understanding and communication are key to overcoming these challenges. This episode addresses the importance of perspective, encourages treating your spouse with grace, and emphasizes the necessity of friendship in strengthening the marital bond. • Discussing normalcy of marital conflicts • Exploring why spouses irritate each other • Impor
Rekindle Intimacy in Marriage | Embracing the 7-Day Sex Challenge with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Send us Fan MailThis podcast episode encourages married couples to embrace the beauty of sexual intimacy while confronting cultural taboos surrounding the topic. Ken and Tabitha share personal insights and experiences, introduce the concept of a Seven-Day Sex Challenge, and provide actionable steps to increase communication and pleasure in marriage.• Importance of normalizing discussions about sex
How to give yourself grace & Stop being so hard on yourself
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we dive deep into the concept of Grace to Self—a powerful mindset shift that encourages us to show ourselves the same love, kindness, and forgiveness we extend to others. 💛So many of us struggle with self-criticism, negative self-talk, and the pressure to be perfect. But what if we learned to give ourselves grace instead? In this conversation, we share personal exp
Master Your Morning | 5 keys to a spiritually empowered start with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Send us Fan MailThe episode focuses on mastering your morning to unlock a fruitful and spiritually empowered day. With practical insights and biblical wisdom, we discuss five keys: planning for the next day, obtaining quality sleep, prioritizing God, engaging in exercise, and meal prepping, all aimed at eliminating excuses and setting a purposeful tone for daily life. • Preparing the night before
Bad company corrupts good manners | Building Right Relationships with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Send us Fan MailThe episode explores the profound effects of relationships on spiritual growth, emphasizing the need for discernment in choosing one's company. We discuss boundary-setting, the challenges posed by misunderstandings, and the call to prioritize spiritual families over blood ties. • The impact of friends on decisions and behavior • The duality of positive and negative influences
Deepen Your relationship with God Practical steps for “living at a 9” with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Send us Fan MailWhat if your relationship with God could transform not just your spiritual life, but every aspect of your existence? We're Ken and Tabitha, and today we're offering you an insightful journey into deepening that divine connection. Just like sporadic workouts can't give you a six-pack, attending church occasionally won't build a robust spiritual foundation. Tune i
