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Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Ken Claytor and Tabatha Claytor 189 Episodes Jul 2, 2026

Ken and Tabatha Claytor share tools and principles from God's Word to help couples grow in love with God and each other. Drawing from 26 years of marriage, they discuss overcoming common relationship challenges like communication issues and financial pressures. The podcast aims to provide practical advice for improving marriages and relationships.

Episodes

How to Fight for Your Marriage Together Jul 2, 2026 2400 Send us Fan MailWhat if the tension in your home isn’t proof you married the wrong person, but proof you’re fighting the wrong enemy? We get real about spiritual warfare in marriage, and we start with a mindset shift that can change everything: it’s not husband versus wife, it’s two people standing together against division, bitterness, and deception.We open up about our own early years, including
How To Save A Marriage With Better Thoughts Jun 25, 2026 1747 Send us Fan MailA marriage can look fine on the outside while quietly getting torn down from the inside by one habit: a critical inner dialogue. We get honest about what happens when you replay a moment, assume the worst, and start building a case against the person you love. If you’ve ever thought “What did they mean by that?” and felt the rabbit hole open up, this conversation gives you a better
Why Keeping A List Of Wrongs Kills Intimacy And How To Let It Go Jun 18, 2026 1665 Send us Fan MailKeeping a mental list of your spouse’s mistakes feels like self-protection, but it quietly turns your home into a courtroom. When every argument pulls out old receipts, intimacy dies, progress feels impossible, and “I forgive you” starts sounding like a trap. We get honest about what list keeping really is: mentally recording mistakes, replaying past failures, storing hurt for futu
Seven Biblical Steps To Turn A Bad Marriage Around Jun 11, 2026 2331 Send us Fan MailA bad marriage can feel like you’re trapped in the same house with a stranger, stuck between “I don’t want to leave” and “I can’t do this anymore.” We go straight at that tension with humility and authority, because we’ve lived it. After 26 years of marriage and a rough start that nearly ended in divorce, we’ve learned that a struggling marriage is often less about “the wrong perso
How To Heal Emotional Wounds Before They Harden Jun 4, 2026 1690 Send us Fan MailHurt has a way of sneaking into every relationship, and if we don’t deal with it, it doesn’t just fade. It hardens. Ken and Tabitha Claytor get honest about how emotional wounds, unmet expectations, betrayal, and disappointment can quietly turn into bitterness that reshapes your personality, drains your joy, and poisons your marriage, friendships, and faith.We talk through what hur
Spiritual Warfare 101 | How The Enemy Targets Believers And How To Fight Back May 28, 2026 2472 Send us Fan MailSome battles don’t start in your schedule, your bank account, or your relationships. They start as a thought you never challenge, a fear you keep feeding, or an offense you refuse to release. We talk about spiritual warfare with a steady head and a strong spine: not blaming the devil for every problem, but also not pretending the enemy isn’t real or organized.We walk through what s
Breaking Ungodly Soul Ties | How to Break Soul Ties & Be FREE! May 21, 2026 2280 Send us Fan MailWe name the difference between healthy and unhealthy soul ties, then get honest about why certain relationships keep pulling us back even when they hurt. We walk through spiritual and practical steps to break ungodly connections and close with a renouncing prayer for healing and freedom. • defining soul ties as emotional, mental, and will-level bonding • healthy soul ties in marria
David's Heart | Developing a Heart That God Promotes May 14, 2026 2393 Send us Fan MailWe talk about why God promotes trustworthy people over simply gifted people, using David’s life to show what a heart after God actually looks like under pressure. We unpack honor, repentance, private integrity, and worship as the habits that keep your heart clean when influence grows. • David’s origin story as the overlooked shepherd anointed for leadership • why time with God shap
How To Heal A Broken Marriage May 7, 2026 2576 Send us Fan MailA marriage can look “fine” on paper and still feel dead in the day to day. If you’re living in the same house but the air feels cold, the talks are short, trust is thin, and intimacy feels complicated, we want to give you real hope and real tools.We tell the truth about our own early years, including the season when Ken privately planned a divorce, the confusion and immaturity that
Hypocrisy Is Keeping You Stuck (Here’s How to Break Free) | “God Wants The Real You” Apr 30, 2026 1892 Send us Fan MailWe define hypocrisy as stage acting and name how it keeps us bound when our image matters more than our integrity. We connect the cost to marriage, family, and spiritual witness, then walk through clear steps and prayers that help us live honest and free. • Defining hypocrisy as pretending outwardly without inward growth • Freedom versus bondage through shame, guilt, insecurity, fe
One of The Biggest Relationship Killers: Blame Shifting Apr 23, 2026 1747 Send us Fan MailWe get real about how blame shifting turns a struggling marriage into a dead-end and why owning your part is the first move toward change. We connect Scripture, self-awareness, and practical habits so you can stop living as the victim in every story and start growing on purpose. • why every struggling relationship has blame shifting somewhere • what “own your part” looks like even
The Kind Of Love A Wife Deserves Apr 16, 2026 2691 Send us Fan MailA lot of men were never taught how to be a husband. You can be loyal, hardworking, and faithful, yet still leave your wife feeling alone in the same house. We get honest about the gap between providing and loving, and we talk about why isolation is one of the fastest ways a man loses his confidence, his clarity, and his ability to lead well.Ken and Tabitha Claytor unpack biblical m

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