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Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Ken Claytor and Tabatha Claytor 189 Episodes Sep 17, 2026

Ken and Tabatha Claytor share tools and principles from God's Word to help couples grow in love with God and each other. Drawing from 26 years of marriage, they discuss overcoming common relationship challenges like communication issues and financial pressures. The podcast aims to provide practical advice for improving marriages and relationships.

Episodes

Let Him Lead. A Call to Godly Wives.
Let Him Lead. A Call to Godly Wives. Sep 17, 2026 2366 Send us Fan Mail“Let him lead” can sound like a fight waiting to happen, especially if you’ve seen leadership used as control or heard submission preached like silence. We take a different route. From the jump, we talk about real marriage pain, the slow buildup of offense, and why we refuse to settle for a bad relationship. After 27 years together, we’ve learned that the marriage doesn’t change be
How to Stop Bumping Heads With Others
How to Stop Bumping Heads With Others Sep 10, 2026 2223 Send us Fan MailThe conflict is not always about the conflict. Sometimes it is pride trying to stay in control, old wounds looking for a target, or a tone that makes people stop hearing your idea and start bracing for impact. If you keep “bumping heads” with your spouse, coworkers, family, or leaders, we are getting honest about the patterns that create repeated relational tension and the habits t
How Resentment Slowly Destroys a Marriage
How Resentment Slowly Destroys a Marriage Sep 3, 2026 1375 Send us Fan MailResentment doesn’t usually sound like yelling. It sounds like “I’m fine,” feels like distance on the couch, and shows up as keeping score in your head. Ken and Tabatha Claytor get real about how resentment slowly destroys a marriage, not through one huge betrayal, but through small disappointments that never get processed and eventually turn into emotional coldness. We talk through
Understanding the Fear of the Lord
Understanding the Fear of the Lord Aug 27, 2026 2307 Send us Fan MailCasual faith sounds harmless until it starts reshaping your conscience. We sit down and talk honestly about the fear of the Lord and why it is not panic, paranoia, or an angry-God mindset. For us, it’s reverence, awe, and a real awareness of God’s holiness that shows up most in private, when nobody is watching and no one is clapping for you.We get practical about what that reverenc
Why Are So Many Good Marriages Quietly Falling Apart?
Why Are So Many Good Marriages Quietly Falling Apart? Aug 20, 2026 1713 Send us Fan MailA marriage can be stable on paper and still feel strangely far apart at home. We’re talking about the slow drift: the subtle, gradual disconnect that happens when life gets loud, schedules take over, and the relationship starts running on autopilot. If you’ve ever thought, “Nothing is technically wrong, but something feels off,” this conversation is your wake-up call and your roadm
The Most Common Lies Satan Uses — And How to Break Free
The Most Common Lies Satan Uses — And How to Break Free Aug 13, 2026 2058 Send us Fan MailThe most dangerous prisons don’t have bars, they have beliefs. Ken and Tabatha Claytor go straight at the core of spiritual warfare: the lies that shape how we see ourselves, how we see God, and what we think is possible. We talk about deliverance in a way that’s both biblical and practical, not just a moment in a corner somewhere, but the everyday freedom that happens when you rep
Your Sons & Daughters Will Prophesy
Your Sons & Daughters Will Prophesy Aug 6, 2026 2272 Send us Fan MailYour words are doing more than describing your life. They’re shaping it. Ken and Tabatha Claytor dig into the Scripture “your sons and your daughters shall prophesy” and make a bold case that prophecy isn’t reserved for a select few with a title. It’s a Spirit-empowered way for everyday believers to speak God’s truth with faith, authority, and love, whether you’re navigating marria
How To Love Your Spouse When You Do Not Like Them
How To Love Your Spouse When You Do Not Like Them Jul 30, 2026 2088 Send us Fan MailWhat do you do when you still love your spouse, but you honestly do not like them right now? We go straight into the real-life stuff couples actually fight about: lights left on, shoes where they “shouldn’t” be, house rules, and that moment when a simple reminder suddenly sounds like disrespect. We laugh, but we also get serious about how tiny irritations can grow into contempt whe
Five Practical Ways To Care For Your Husband With Faith And Respect
Five Practical Ways To Care For Your Husband With Faith And Respect Jul 23, 2026 2892 Send us Fan MailWhat if the next breakthrough in your marriage is something simple you can do this week at home, not a huge speech or a dramatic reset? We sit down for a Valentine’s week conversation that gets practical fast, sharing five real-world ways a wife can care for her husband in a way that changes the atmosphere of the whole house.We start with honor, because respect is not fluff, it is
The Number One Thing Wives Need
The Number One Thing Wives Need Jul 16, 2026 2865 Send us Fan MailWhat if the biggest breakthrough in your marriage is waiting on the other side of real leadership at home? Ken and Tabatha Claytor sit down for a direct, honest conversation aimed at husbands, future husbands, and anyone who wants a healthier Christian marriage. We talk to the man who’s doing his best and also to the man who’s stuck, tired, isolated, or never had a model for what f
God’s Design For Sex
God’s Design For Sex Jul 9, 2026 2856 Send us Fan MailMost couples don’t break because they stop loving each other. They break because they stop feeling connected, and one of the fastest places that disconnection shows up is sexual intimacy. We go straight at the uncomfortable question many married Christians whisper but rarely say out loud: why does sex in marriage so often drift into frustration, avoidance, pressure, or a roommate v
How to Fight for Your Marriage Together
How to Fight for Your Marriage Together Jul 2, 2026 2400 Send us Fan MailWhat if the tension in your home isn’t proof you married the wrong person, but proof you’re fighting the wrong enemy? We get real about spiritual warfare in marriage, and we start with a mindset shift that can change everything: it’s not husband versus wife, it’s two people standing together against division, bitterness, and deception.We open up about our own early years, including

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