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Divorced and Redeemed| Broken Heart, Forgiveness, Betrayal, Infidelity, New Beginnings

Divorced and Redeemed| Broken Heart, Forgiveness, Betrayal, Infidelity, New Beginnings

Bonita Hamm - Divorce Coach; Christian Life Coach 20 Episodes Jun 13, 2026

This podcast is for Christian women healing from the emotional and spiritual pain of divorce and spousal betrayal. It offers guidance on overcoming bitterness, unforgiveness, and shame through faith and emotional wellness. The host, a divorce and Christian life coach, helps listeners find the courage to rebuild their lives and start a new chapter.

Episodes

Why You Feel Numb After Divorce (And How God Begins Healing You) Jun 13, 2026 1043 Have you stopped crying… but still don't feel like yourself? Do you feel emotionally flat, disconnected, or spiritually exhausted after divorce? Maybe you're functioning, going through the motions, and trying to keep moving forward—but deep down, you feel numb. In this episode, we're talking about the emotional shutdown that many Christian women experience after betrayal and divorce but rarely dis
19. Anger After Betrayal: The Emotion Christians Are Afraid to Talk About May 21, 2026 999 If you’ve been telling yourself, “I shouldn’t still be this angry…” — this episode is for you. In this deeply honest and healing conversation, we’re talking about the emotion many Christian women feel after betrayal and divorce…but are often afraid to admit out loud: anger. After a spouse’s betrayal, infidelity, deception, or emotional abandonment, many women carry hidden rage, resentment, bittern
18. Shame After Divorce: The Lie That Keeps You Stuck May 18, 2026 854 After divorce, many Christian women don't just carry heartbreak; they carry shame. They carry the shame of what happened, of what people think, of starting over later in life, and have a quiet fear that maybe they somehow failed. In this deeply healing episode, we're talking about the lie shame whispers after betrayal and divorce, and why God never intended for you to live weighed down by condemna
17. How to Let God Heal Your Broken Heart After Divorce or Betrayal May 2, 2026 1136 If your heart feels shattered right now, if you're trying to hold yourself together after betrayal or divorce, and you're wondering, "God, how do I even begin to heal from this?" this episode is for you. Today, we're not just talking about healing in theory; we're talking about how to actually let God heal the places in you that still hurt.
16. Why Does Betrayal Make You Feel So Rejected? A Christian Healing Guide Apr 24, 2026 782 In this episode, we're having a conversation about the sting of rejection after betrayal or divorce and why it cuts deeper than many people realize. You'll learn that betrayal doesn't just break trust; it can plant lies about your worth, value, and identity. But we're not staying stuck there.  If you've been struggling with feelings of being replaced, not enough, or easily discarded, this episode
15. Triggered After Divorce? Why Everything Sets You Off (and How To Finally Calm Down) Apr 21, 2026 772 Are you feeling easily triggered after divorce—like the smallest things suddenly overwhelm you, bring back painful memories, or send your emotions spiraling? If you’ve been asking yourself: “Why am I still so emotional?” “Why do I feel anxious, reactive, or on edge all the time?” “I thought I was healing… so why does everything still trigger me?” You are not crazy—and you are not alone. In this ep
14. Feeling Unsafe After Betrayal or Divorce? Here’s How to Rebuild Emotional Safety Apr 18, 2026 870 If you’ve been through betrayal or divorce and suddenly feel anxious, guarded, or emotionally on edge… you’re not imagining it—and you’re not broken. In this episode, we’re talking about emotional safety after betrayal or divorce—why you don’t feel like yourself anymore, why your heart feels constantly on alert, and how trauma impacts your ability to trust, rest, and feel secure again. We’ll walk
13. How to Feel Peace Again When Your Life Fell Apart Apr 15, 2026 750 What do you do when your life falls apart… and peace feels completely out of reach? In this episode, we’re having a real, heart-level conversation about what it looks like to find peace again after divorce, betrayal, and unexpected life changes. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or like you’ve lost the life you once knew—this episode is for you. We’re diving into why peace
12. Struggling to Trust God After Divorce? How to Rebuild Your Faith Again Apr 11, 2026 775 Rebuilding faith after divorce isn’t easy—but it is possible. If you’re walking through pain, uncertainty, and unanswered questions, you may be wondering how to trust God again. In this episode, we’re talking about how to rebuild your faith after divorce in a real, honest, and practical way. You’ll learn: How to trust God in the middle of emotional pain What to do when your faith feels weak or sh
11. Why Does God Feel Silent After Divorce? Finding Faith in the Quiet Apr 8, 2026 663 Have you ever wondered, “Why does God feel silent after divorce?” If you’re struggling to hear God, feeling distant from Him, or questioning your faith after heartbreak, you are not alone. In this episode, we’re talking about what it really means when God feels silent after divorce—and why His silence doesn’t mean His absence. You’ll learn how grief, betrayal, and emotional overwhelm can make it h
10. Feeling Lonely After Divorce? How To Find Peace and Connection Again Apr 4, 2026 1150 Feeling lonely after divorce can hit in ways you didn’t expect—the quiet, the disconnection, the loss of your “person.” In this episode, we talk honestly about what loneliness really looks like and how to begin moving through it with faith, intention, and grace. You’ll walk away with encouragement, biblical truth, and simple, practical steps to help you rebuild connection, find peace in the quiet,
9. From 'We' to 'Me': Finding Your Identity After Divorce Mar 31, 2026 819 After several years of marriage, divorce can leave you wondering, “Who am I now?” In this episode, we talk about the identity crisis that can follow when your life has been deeply intertwined with your spouse—and how to rediscover who you are in Christ. With honest storytelling, biblical truth, and practical steps, you’ll be reminded that you are still chosen, still whole, and still deeply loved. 

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