Dear Young Married Couple
Marriage Counselors, Adam King, MA, and Karissa King, MA, talk with couples, pastors, and therapists about strengthening your marriage as a busy couple. From communication and finances to parenting, building trust, and cultivating godly desire and intimacy in the bedroom, this podcast equips you with tools to deepen your connection and create a thriving marriage.
Episodes
The Secret to Genuine CONFIDENCE (Hint: It's Not Thinking You're Amazing)
Most of us have confidence all WRONG (especially in today's self-righteous and entitled culture.) Why do you think even highly successful people starve for validation? How secure are you in the possibility of failure? Let's explore the difference between chasing approval, trying to manufacture your own worth, and receiving an identity that doesn't have to be earned.
Resources:
Monthly Live
Think You Have LOW DRIVE? Think Again!
We've all done it... We've labeled ourselves and our spouse as the "high/low drive" one. We assume one party can get it on at any given time and the other just generally isn't in the mood. The truth is, it's much more complex than that. In this episode, we're gonna share a simple tool that will take you minutes to complete, but give you so much insight into each others' desire for sex.
Resou
How to Repair After an Argument
This is an episode we aired in 2022 and it really resonated with you all. It's a message that doesn't have an expiration date: How to Repair After an Argument
It's not always easy to know the steps to take to repair after a nuclear argument. Join Adam + Karissa as they share how you can repair + the steps to do so!
Join us for the next DYMC Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of t
How We Talk to Our Kids About Porn (And the Book That Helped) w/ Kristen Jenson, MA
🛡️📱 When should "the" conversation start, and what happens if we wait too long? Do you know the danger of some of the seemingly "innocent" games your kids are playing online? Hear author and educator Kristen Jenson unpack one of the most important parenting conversations of our time.
Whether your child is a toddler, tween, or somewhere in between, this episode will equip you with conf
Why Your EMPATHY Might Feel FAKE
You can genuinely care about your spouse, say all the “right” things, and still leave them feeling completely alone.
In this episode, we explore why empathy can sometimes feel fake, how your spouse’s emotions stir up emotions in you, and the subtle difference between holding space and simply trying to make the moment end.
What looks like listening may actually be fixing, defending, or even overv
Why We're Moving from California 🏡
🏡 We’re moving and chasing a God-sized dream.
This isn’t a story about running away from California. It’s about moving toward the life, ministry, and vision we believe God has been leading us toward for years. We talk about the grief of leaving our home, church, family, and friends; the “breadcrumbs” that helped us recognize God’s direction; and why Nashville gives us a better opportunity to serv
Lessons Learned While WRITING OUR BOOK Together
📖 TODAY'S THE DAY! Hard copies are available on Amazon! You can get it on your doorstep as early as tomorrow. After years of conversations, counseling, rewriting, and refining, we are pulling back the curtain on what creating Dear Young Married Couple taught them about strengthening our own marriage.
Whether you're building a dream together or simply trying to build a stronger relationship, thi
Using ChatGPT for Marriage Problems: What You Need to Know
🤖 Is AI a good substitute for marriage counseling? We say no (shocking, right?) 😆
ChatGPT is designed to reinforce assumptions, whether they're accurate or not, and deliver confident answers that aren't always wise. In this episode, we unpack why turning to AI for relationship advice can sometimes deepen misunderstandings instead of bringing healing.
That doesn't mean AI is all bad, though. Used
WE WROTE A BOOK! 🎉
📖 A dream years in the making is finally becoming reality! Dear Young Married Couple: Letters & Tools for the Fights, the Fun, the Sex, and the Soulwork is available for pre-order in the Kindle version. Hard copies drop 7/7!
Pre-order the ebook here and get the audiobook for FREE when it's available!
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See where we're headed on our book tour! We'd love to meet you !🚗
We Feel Called to Ministry… Now What? w/ Rev. JD Pearring and Lori Pearring, MA, LMFT
What does it really take to build a lasting ministry without sacrificing your marriage, family, or personal well-being along the way? JD and Lori Pearring pull back the curtain on the hidden challenges many leaders face from blind spots and burnout to finances, calling, and emotional health.
Resources:
Excel Leadership Network
https://excelnetwork.org/blog
LoriPearringLMFT@gmail.com
3 Actions That Rebuild Trust After Betrayal
💔 Betrayal doesn’t just break trust. It shatters the entire sense of safety a marriage was built on. So what does real repair actually look like? Let's unpack the three actions that help rebuild what was lost after a breach of trust.
If you're tired of surface-level advice and wondering how trust is rebuilt in the real world, this conversation offers a practical roadmap for the long road back to
How to Kill the Ego: The Death of Pride in Leadership w/ Pastor Josh Melancon
🔥In a culture where pride is often celebrated as a virtue, what if it's actually the thing holding us back?
In this conversation with Pastor Josh Melancon, we unpack the hidden ways pride can shape our marriages, leadership, parenting, and spiritual growth without us even realizing it. From learning how to receive hard feedback to uncovering the wounds that drive our behavior, Pastor Josh shares
How to Lead without Bringing Home the Leftovers w/ Pastor Kevin and Chassidy Allen
⛪️ Ministry can look fruitful on the outside while quietly draining the people you love most at home. Adam & Karissa had the privilege of sitting down with Kevin & Chassidy Allen to discuss how couples can stay connected when life feels nonstop. This episode is packed with wisdom for leaders, pastors, and couples trying to balance calling, family, and emotional health without losing themselves in
Your DESIRE Isn’t Random w/ Jay Stringer, MA, MDiv, LMHC
🧠❤️ What if your desires aren’t the problem, but rather the roadmap? Listen to Adam, Karissa, and Jay Stringer unpack why so many marriages feel stuck between suppression and self-indulgence - from purity culture and porn struggles to emotional intimacy, self-sabotage, family dynamics, and the hidden stories shaping our marriages.
If you’ve ever wondered why you keep repeating the same patter
A TOOL to Rescue Your TOXIC Arguments
This is one of our most listened to podcasts of all time! The reason? EVERY COUPLE argues. Aaaaand, arguments can be great & productive if they are done correctly. Have your arguments been going nuclear? Join Adam + Karissa as they share a tool to rescue your toxic arguments, along with some simple, easy steps to apply it!
Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our we
Marriage vs. Kids: Getting the PRIORITY Right
👨👩👧👦 This post BLEW UP! A couple weeks ago, we made a post on IG about prioritizing your spouse over every other relationship.... including your kids. Aaaaand it got some pushback.
In this episode, we unpack the tension around prioritizing your spouse and bring clarity to what “putting your marriage first” actually means (hint: it’s not about neglecting your kids). If you’ve ever felt like yo
Will You FOLLOW ME? The Bible & Submission w/ Rev. Cornelius Williams
👩🏻❤️👨🏽 Submission is a hot topic because it's often misinterpreted, ignored, or distorted. In this conversation with Cornelius J. Williams, we unpack a fresh, thought-provoking framework: what it really looks like to surrender your mind, will, and pride to God and each other in marriage.
Let's get honest about the messy middle where faith meets everyday decisions. If you’ve ever wrestled with
Panic Attacks: What They Are, What They Aren’t, and How to Help
😰 When your body sounds the alarm, you feel out of control, and you can't even identify what triggered it, you may be having a panic attack.
In this episode, we’re unpacking panic attacks -- what they are (and aren’t), why they can feel so intense and out of nowhere, and how fear can quietly fuel the cycle.
You’ll hear Karissa's personal story, learn how panic connects to your mind, body, and
Should we Agree to DISAGREE? w/ Dr. Les Parrott
💥 What if your fights aren’t actually the problem… but the doorway to something better? In this conversation with Dr. Les Parrott, we unpack why some arguments quietly tear couples apart while others can actually bring you closer.
You’ll walk away with a simple but powerful shift: learning to see your spouse’s world from the inside out.
Grab the free relationship assessment at https://www.my
Build Your Marriage With PRAYER w/ Brad & Heidi Mitchell
🙏 What if one simple habit could completely shift the atmosphere of your marriage? Let's unpack why so many couples want to pray together—but feel stuck, unsure, or even intimidated to start. Through raw honesty and real-life stories (including a marriage rebuilt from broken trust), you’ll discover that prayer isn’t about saying the “right” words, but it’s about showing up together.
If you’ve ev
3 Reasons Men Can't Quit Porn
⛓️ If you’ve been stuck in the same cycle and can't seem to break free, this might explain why…
This is what's actually driving unwanted behaviors (spoiler: it’s not just a lack of discipline.) There are deeper patterns at play: the way your brain solves discomfort, the condition of your body when stress is high, and the hidden role of shame that quietly keeps people stuck. When you understand th
The Love Language That Matters MOST w/ Dr. Gary Chapman
❤️ You know the five love languages… but what if you’re still missing each other? Hear Dr. Gary Chapman explain why many couples feel frustrated even when they’re trying to love their spouse well. Sometimes it’s not the language that’s wrong - it’s the dialect, the timing, or the agenda getting in the way.
We talk about personality differences, empathy in communication, the two stages of romant
Papa’s Final Piece of Marriage Advice (61 Years of Marriage)
👵🏻👴🏼 What do couples married 61 years know about love that the rest of us don’t? Karissa’s Papa gave us some pretty great marriage advice just days before he passed away. Wisdom forged through decades of faith, family, hardship, laughter, and unwavering commitment.
His number-one piece of advice may sound simple, but it has the power to transform the spiritual, emotional, and even physical conn
“Not Wrong, Just Different Shades of RIGHT” — The Marriage Mindset That BREAKS Recurring Conflict w/ Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
💡 Ever had a moment in your marriage where something just clicked? In this episode, we sit down with marriage expert and bestselling author Dr. Emerson Eggerichs to talk about the powerful “light bulb moments” that can completely reframe the way couples see each other. What if the issue you keep arguing about isn’t actually about who’s right and who’s wrong? What if it’s just… different shades of
When a Christian Wife Wants to QUIT (and What to Do Instead) w/ Lindsey Maestas
💔 Ever felt like quitting your marriage… even though you promised you never would? In this powerful conversation with Lindsey Maestas, we talk about the silent resentment, exhaustion, and disconnection that can creep in during the early years—and what to do before you “burn your own house down.”
Lindsey shares how sleep deprivation, unmet expectations, and poor communication nearly unraveled h
COMMUNICATION Patterns that Can SABOTAGE or Strengthen a Marriage w/ Dr. David Burns
❤️🩹 What if the real problem in your marriage isn’t “communication”… but resistance? Join us as we interview Dr. David Burns to unpack why so many couples say they want a better relationship—yet subtly fight the very change that would heal it.
Are you truly willing to let go of being right? Could the breakthrough you’re praying for be on the other side of owning your part? If you’ve ever felt
HOSTING Together: How Your Marriage Sets the Atmosphere for Guests w/ Abby Kuykendall
🕯️🏡 If you’ve ever wanted to be “that house” - the one that gathers people, builds community, and makes everyone feel welcomed - but hosting somehow turns into stress, tension, and resentment between the two of you… tune in.
Abby Turner Kuykendall (author of Let the Biscuits Burn) joins Karissa to talk about the real emotional obstacles behind hospitality in marriage: mismatched expectations, i
3 Reasons Valentine’s Day Creates PRESSURE (And How to Get on the Same Page)
💘😅 Valentine’s Day is supposed to feel romantic… so why does it leave so many couples feeling more discouraged than connected? Listen in as Adam and Karissa break down three surprisingly common reasons Valentine’s Day can actually make your marriage feel worse - even if you’re not “in crisis.”
What would change if you talked about Valentine's Day Expectations before the day arrives instead of ho
Just JESUS: The Way To Start Your New Year (w/ Rev. Dr. O.S. Hawkins)
✨ What if the reset your marriage actually needs isn’t a new system, habit, or goal - but a clearer focus? In this episode, we sit down with O.S. Hawkins to talk about what it looks like to strip away the noise, the pressure, and the expectations and come back to the center: Jesus. ♥️
We explore why strong marriages are built from the inside out, how your relationship with God shapes every other
How to talk to Your Kids About Sex w/ Kristen Miele
🌱🔥 What if the things you’re avoiding talking about are the very things shaping your kids the most? Hear us sit down with Kristen Miele of Sex Ed Reclaimed to talk about the quiet ways intimacy fades in marriage, how kids sense more than we think, and why silence around sex and sexuality leaves a lasting mark.
This conversation reframes awkward moments as sacred opportunities for discipleship.
Who's Steering the Ship? w/ Rev. Charles + Stacey Robinette
🌊⚓ What does it really take to stay connected after decades of marriage - through storms, trauma, transitions, and everything in between?
In this conversation, Rev. Charles and Stacey Robinette share hard-earned wisdom from over 30 years of marriage, unpacking why love isn’t about smooth sailing but about learning how to row together when the waves hit.
They open up about healing from past wou
Blended Family Discipline (Why “Bio Parent Only” Can Backfire) w/ Leading Expert Ron Deal, LMFT
💛🥘 When you picture a blended family, do you picture a blender spinning a whole bunch of ingredients together for a couple minutes until they're well-combined? Plot twist: blended families are less like a blender and more like a crock pot. Each vegetable/meat cooks at different frequencies and it takes a whole lot longer than a blender until the meal is complete.
In this episode, we sit down wit
We’re Going All In in 2026 (Sneak Peek at What’s to Come)
🎆 BEHIND THE SCENCES: Take a look at a year that stretched, surprised, and shaped everything we’re building next! Adam and Karissa pull back the curtain on what really happened in 2025—from thousands of couples served, marriages rebuilt, to an entire team that grew their families while carrying the mission forward.
What’s in store for 2026?! What are couples actually craving in this season? Wha
Mom. Student. CEO. How to Do It All (And When Not To) w/ Zim Flores
👶🤰 HUSTLE culture meets MOTHERHOOD in this honest conversation with Zim Flores. Meet a woman who went from building and selling companies to closing doors, slowing down, and embracing life with two little ones.
Zim opens up about the tension many moms feel between ambition and presence. What happens when the life you worked so hard to build no longer fits the season you’re in? How do you know wh
Introvert's Holiday Survival Guide (And the Spouses Who Love Them)
🎄🔋 Ever leave a holiday gathering feeling totally energized… while your spouse is completely wiped? Hear Adam and Karissa unpack why the holidays can feel magical for one spouse and exhausting for the other—and why introversion has nothing to do with being antisocial or unloving.
They talk about social “battery life,” common myths that quietly fuel marital tension, and how couples can plan and
When You’re Not Feeling Christmas w/ Donna VanLiere (NY Times Best-Selling Author)
🎄✨ The ache you feel during the holidays is likely an invitation to something deeper. In this conversation, bestselling author Donna VanLiere invites YOU to slow down, step away from the noise, and rediscover the quiet wonder of Christmas in the middle of real life - grief, busyness, loneliness, and all. From the ordinary people of the nativity to the ordinary pressures of modern marriage, Donna r
Interviewing the KIDDOS: A Peek at Our Family JOY Audit
🎄✨ Ever wonder what your kids actually remember about the holidays? Hear Adam & Karissa hand the mic to their own kids for a full “holiday audit,” asking what traditions matter most, what feels boring, and what their family would win a trophy for.
Their unfiltered answers will make you laugh, but also get you thinking: what if the moments you stress about aren’t the moments your kids cherish? An
Gary Thomas Walks Us Through a Heart Check on Control, Success, and Fulfillment
⛪️ Ever wondered if you’ve accidentally slipped into a “ministry-first” life instead of a God-first one? Or why pursuing “success” in the name of Jesus can sometimes leave your home drained, your marriage stretched thin, and your soul strangely empty?
In this episode, we sit down with Gary Thomas to unravel the subtle but powerful lies that derail intimacy with God and quietly distort family rhy
STOP Outsourcing Family Discipleship to the Church w/ Kaleb Saucer and Ellerie Saucer, MA, LPC
👀 Ever wonder what a truly healthy home looks like when no one’s watching? This week, Kaleb and Ellerie Saucer pull back the curtain on discipleship in the everyday chaos: waffles and devotions, tech boundaries that actually work, playful connection, repentance-as-teachable-moment, and the small rhythms that slowly shape a family’s spiritual culture.
What if the most meaningful spiritual formatio
ASK: Is a 50th Anniversary Necessarily a Sign of a Good Marriage?
What makes a good marriage - just hitting the 50-year mark, or actually thriving along the way? Listen to Adam and Karissa tackle a listener’s question: Is longevity the same as health?
They unpack the difference between quiet marriages that merely last and vibrant ones that continually grow, repair, and pursue purpose together. Are you and your spouse best friends, or just good roommates? Do yo
Freedom Without Fighting: The Secret to Outgrowing Porn
🔥 What if freedom from porn didn’t mean fighting harder, but growing deeper? Listen to Adam and his friend, Drew Boa, unpack why willpower alone never works and how emotional maturity, inner healing, and real connection lead to lasting change. What if your “struggle” isn’t about lust at all, but about loneliness, pain, and the little kid inside still waiting to be seen?
Drew shares raw parts of
BAD Marriage Advice: Myths That Keep Couples STUCK w/ Monica Tanner
❌ Ever heard “happy wife, happy life”? Or “just learn to compromise”? Monica Tanner—author of Bad Marriage Advice—joins Adam and Karissa to turn some of the most common marriage clichés upside down.
Did you know that compromise can actually breed resentment? This episode will make you rethink the way you communicate with your spouse. Could some of the advice you’ve believed for years actually b
I'm a Spender, He's a Saver: 3 Questions That Changed Everything
💰 Is money the third person in your marriage? You’re not alone. Hear Adam and Karissa get real about how financial tension often masks deeper emotional and spiritual dynamics in marriage.
They share three simple but powerful questions that can turn money fights into teamwork — no spreadsheets required. What if you could replace anxiety with alignment? What if money could actually draw you closer
ASK Episode: Why Can't They Say SORRY?
❤️🩹 Repairing after an argument often involves one or both parties owning up to the fact that they were wrong. This can be extremely difficult for some people for a variety of reasons. Hear Adam and Karissa unpack those reasons in today's episode as they answer a question from a listener.
Want to submit your own anonymous question for Adam and Karissa? Hit the SPEAK Pipe link below.
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Top 3 Communication HACKS We’ve Used for 15+ Years
🎙️ Ever wish you could peek behind the curtain of a marriage therapist’s own relationship? Listen to Adam and Karissa interview each other on their top 3 real-life communication hacks that have actually kept their marriage strong through 15 years of counseling others. These are the habits that make all the difference. 💬
Do you ever struggle to give your spouse your full attention? Or find yoursel
Motherhood Isn’t a PAUSE Button on Who You Are w/ Sarah Therese
🤱Is motherhood something you survive... or something that shapes you?
Let’s hear Karissa sit down with Sarah—a mom of 5, a devoted wife, and a woman who’s chosen to homeschool, create, and live her calling from the center of her home.
Together they explore what it looks like to:
Stay creative when your kids are always around
Honor your identity without needing to "escape" motherhood
Answering the Call to Adoption w/ Hunter & Brookelyn Haley
🫶 Have you ever wondered if adoption could be part of your story, but felt the weight of fear, finances, or uncertainty holding you back? Hunter and Brookelyn Haley have been there, and they opened up about how they moved from hesitation to wholehearted yes, and discovered unexpected joy along the way.
Their journey reminds us that what feels impossible might just be the sacred calling God is pl
Raising Readers and Thinkers: The Daily Rhythms That Work w/ Rev. Jordon Frye
📚Children who are readers grow up to become leaders, thinkers, and socially aware adults—and the evidence proves it!
In the age of lightning fast satisfaction, endless media entertainment, and ever-developing AI, it can certainly be a challenge to raise kids who are detached from a screen and lost in a book… but in this episode, Jordon Frye, Founder and CEO of Truth Book Co, speaks to how it is n
Think Like Jesus. Kill the EGO. Do the Dishes. w/ Rev. Garrett Robertson and Rev. Allison Robertson
💭What does it look like to have the “mind of Christ” (Phillipians 2:5) in your marriage? Humility, Hope, Peaceful Thinking… These are trademark characteristics of Jesus; and while we all strive to exemplify them in our interactions with others, we can struggle to uphold them in our own homes and marriages.
In this episode, we explore this idea of thinking like Jesus with Garrett and Allison Rober
Labor and Birth: What Your Wife Wishes You Knew w/ Kim Mathis, MS, NP
🤰Labor may seem like a solo sport, but ideally, it’s very much a team effort! Husbands, there are a few things that your wife wishes you knew about labor and birth, so go ahead and get your pen and paper out…
In this episode, we talk with Kim Mathis, MS, NP about all aspects of giving birth and ways that you as the spouse can offer effective support both in preparation and in the birthing room! H
How an FBI Chaplain Keeps the Darkness Out of Her Home w/ Rev. Kristen Ellis
🫂❤️When walking with people through pain or tragic circumstances, inside or outside your home, it can be tempting to feel the need to have something profound to say or an answer to provide, but what if it’s a lot simpler than that?
In this episode, Rev. Kristen Ellis, an FBI Chaplain, shares what it looks like to have a “Ministry of Presence”. We discuss the idea of operating from a place of perm
Sunshine, Rainbows, and Real FRIENDSHIP w/ Elenee & Jeremiah Young
🌈🌩️ Not every love story is “Sunshine and Rainbows”, and that’s exactly what makes it beautiful. This week, we brought the studio all the way to Canada to sit down with our dear friends Elenee and Jeremiah for a raw, hilarious, and heartfelt conversation on what friendship inside and outside the marriage really looks like when life gets real.
Do you know how to recognize real friendship? Are yo
This Question Changed the Room: A Live EROS Session
👩❤️👨 This live Q&A episode from our recent EROS Marriage Weekend in Columbus is everything you didn’t know you needed. What do you do when you’re shutting down in conflict? How can couples in ministry keep their marriage from running dry? And what if one of you just can’t seem to be vulnerable?
These aren’t just topics. We’re diving into actual couples' questions, live and unscripted. You’ll l
You're Not Just Tired--You're In A Transition
🤷🏻♂️ Ever felt a little off during a big win in life? Like getting married, having a baby, moving to a new city, or even switching careers/churches? You tell yourself you’re crazy & ungrateful, when really, you’re likely grieving. And that’s okay!
Let’s crack open a powerful, often overlooked truth: joy and grief often walk hand-in-hand through life’s biggest transitions.
If you've ever though
Our Morning and Evening Routines - And Why You Should Do It Too
⏱️ Ready to stop letting your day run you and start showing up with PURPOSE? Join A+K as they pull back the curtain on their own morning and evening routines to help you reclaim control of your mindset, your marriage, and your mood. ☕🛌
What if your sleep, hydration, and even the light in your room are shaping your attitude more than you think? Are you living by design or default?
Resources:
Why High-Achieving Couples Can Feel Lonely at Home w/ Adam Lane Smith
😵💫 Ever wonder why your marriage just feels… off? Maybe the spark is fading, or one of you is crushing it at work but totally disconnecting at home. Let’s hear Adam Lane Smith drop the real reason behind emotional burnout, sexual disconnection, and the silent divide that so many high-achieving couples face. Spoiler: we’re not just gonna tell you to communicate better. This is about brain chemist
Distinct by Design: Recovering the Roles of Husband and Wife
🤔 What exactly is your role in marriage, and how do you know if you're doing it well? This episode gets real about the quiet pressure so many women feel to “figure it out” while men often inherit a direct mission from the start.
Let’s unpack why the lack of a job description for wives isn’t a curse, but a calling. Are you just getting by, or are you multiplying love, preserving goodness, and dis
PARENTING When You’re Tired and TRIGGERED
🫠 Ever feel like your fuse is shorter than your toddler’s attention span? You’re not alone. In this episode, we’re digging into the moments when parenting feels more like surviving, and we’re giving you a 4-step framework to parent with clarity, compassion, and actual peace (even when you’re exhausted).
What if your response to your toddler’s tantrum was an opportunity for connection? If you've
How to Speak LIFE to Your Husband When All You Want to do is YELL at Him w/ Ann & Dave Wilson
💬 Could your words be quietly undoing the very prayers you're praying over your marriage? In this raw and deeply practical episode, Adam sits down with Dave and Ann Wilson, chaplains, church leaders, authors, and real-life marriage mentors, to unpack how criticism, even when well-intended, can crush connection.
What happens when a wife realizes her “helpful feedback” feels more like booing from
Can Jesus and Therapy Coexist? A Loving Response to Misunderstandings in the Church
💬 What if counseling wasn’t a sign of weak faith… but of holy courage?
In this powerful episode, Adam and Karissa share a deeply personal story that sparked a much-needed conversation: Can Christians trust Jesus and go to therapy? Is medicine unbiblical—or could it be part of the miracle? They unpack the dangerous theology that tells believers to "just pray harder" and reveal the truth about how
Unfiltered Q&A: Real Couples, Raw Questions, Honest Answers
Ever feel like you're the only one wrestling with hard questions in marriage? 😥 You’re not. In this raw and unfiltered Q&A from our most recent EROS Marriage Weekend in Columbus, we dive into the stuff that usually stays in the shadows—awkward sex talks with teens, grief masked as irritability, emotional shutdowns, and why initiating intimacy can feel impossible after trauma.
What if naming the
Why GOOD Men Keep Watching Porn – and How to BREAK FREE
🎯 What if the greatest threat to your marriage wasn’t another person… but a habit hidden in plain sight? Hear Adam pull back the curtain on a devastating epidemic affecting 7 out of 10 Christian men—pornography. It’s not just a “struggle,” it’s a brain-altering, soul-crushing addiction that thrives in secrecy.
So why can’t good men with strong willpower just stop? And how do they actually start
Mental Load Is Emotional Foreplay (and Most Men Miss It) w/ Dr. Morgan Cutlip
Ever feel like you’re doing everything and thinking about everything—and no one even notices? 👀💬 Or maybe you're the husband who’s wondering, “Why isn’t my help enough?”
In this eye-opening conversation with psychologist and author Dr. Morgan Cutlip, we unpack the invisible weight that’s quietly crushing connection in so many marriages. Discover why the mental load isn’t just about chores—and ho
Why You’re STUCK (And the Sentence That Changes Everything)
Ever feel like you're grinding hard but still going nowhere fast? 🚀This episode is for anyone who's ever asked, “Will I ever make a difference?” Adam and Karissa get raw about one of their most humbling seasons—single-bedroom-living, weed-whacking-in-the-heat, tears-outside-a-gas-station kind of raw.
But in the midst of that, something shifted: belief. They unpack how changing your inner dialogu
How Delight Shapes Your Child’s Identity (Not Just Their Mood)
🎈Ever wonder what makes a child feel deeply known, safe, and joyful—not just in the moment, but for life?
This episode explores the power of delight in parenting and how tiny moments of joy can quietly shape your child's sense of identity, emotional health, and their view of God. From bath bombs to sticky note lunchbox quotes, we unpack how delight isn’t spoiling—it’s soul-building.
What do y
From Betrayal to Intimacy: A Guide to Rebuilding Trust
❤️🩹 When trust shatters, rebuilding isn’t about rushing to forgiveness—it’s about slow, relentless pursuit. In this episode, we unpack what it actually takes to rebuild trust after betrayal, and why “just moving on” doesn’t work.
What does a betrayed spouse truly need to feel safe again? And how can the one who broke the trust stay present in the pain without getting defensive or giving up? If
Why Parenting Feels HARDER Now and What To Do About It w/ Dr. Leonard Sax
📲 What if the very screens that entertain your kids are sabotaging their character—and your authority as a parent?
In this jaw-dropping episode, Dr. Leonard Sax joins Adam and Karissa to expose the shocking truth behind the culture of disrespect dominating today’s youth. From the dopamine addiction of TikTok to the dangers of AI girlfriends and porn-fueled expectations, Dr. Sax shares the science
Before the Aisle: Why Premarital Counseling is a Game-Changer
What if one conversation could save your future marriage from years of pain? 💭 Hear Adam and Karissa uncover why premarital counseling is so much more than a checkbox.
It’s not therapy-speak or couch confessions—it’s strategy, clarity, and tools you’ll actually use when life gets real. Think: reusable, confidence-building recipes for communication, conflict, and connection.
They’ll unpack five
Not Just a Wedding: A Journey to Oneness
You’re planning a wedding—but are you preparing for a marriage? Hear Adam and Karissa pull back the curtain on three major blind spots that engaged couples often overlook. Why does communication seem so easy before the vows—but crash and burn after? What if marriage wasn’t designed to make you happy... but holy? And how do love and respect actually work when you're frustrated, not infatuated?
Whe
10 Conversations You MUST Have Before Saying ‘I Do’
You’ve heard the phrase “when you know, you know”—but is love alone really enough to build a lasting marriage? 💭
In this episode, we’re diving into the 10 essential conversations every couple should have before they say “I do.” From spiritual alignment and family dynamics to sex, conflict, and forgiveness, these aren’t fluffy questions—they’re the deep, sometimes awkward, always necessary topics
ONE Bible, TWO Believers, and ZERO Clue Where to Start w/ Dr. Philip Nation
Is praying together awkward? Do you struggle to make Bible reading a “we” thing instead of just a “me” thing? If your Bible is collecting more dust than highlighters, this episode is for you! 📖 We’re sitting down with Dr. Philip Nation—pastor, author, and VP at Thomas Nelson Bibles—to talk about why spiritual habits in marriage so often stall out and how to build rhythms that actually bring life.
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*disclaimer* This episode includes discussions on pleasure and anatomy. If you’re not comfortable with your little ones hearing these details, consider popping in your headphones or saving it for a private moment.
Most couples struggling with mismatched sex drives think the problem is obvious—one person wants it more, and the other wants it less. But what if that’s not actually the issue? 🤯
Let’
Why do They PULL AWAY? Fix the Hidden Fear Destroying your Marriage
Feeling stuck in a cycle of closeness and withdrawal? 🌀 In this episode, Adam and Karissa reveal why your spouse may pull away—even when things are going well—and share 5 steps to build lasting emotional security. ♥️ Don't miss this game-changing advice for deeper connection!
We have just one more EROS Marriage Weekend left this year! Register now!
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Truth Book Co – Thoughtful books fo
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Stress doesn’t have to tear your marriage apart! 🤯 The way you and your spouse handle stress is likely different, and without understanding those differences, it can create tension. In this episode, we unpack the three stress styles—fighter, fleer, and freezer—so you can identify yours and learn how to work through stress as a team. Plus, we share a simple tool to help you stop stress from escalat
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Are old survival habits silently sabotaging your marriage? 🤯 Dr. Dan Allender joins us to unpack why even the smallest conflicts—like a baked potato debate—often stem from something much deeper. We dive into how past wounds shape present struggles, why marriage is meant to reveal both our best and worst, and how to move from good to great connection. 💛
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💭 What do you do when cultural differences clash in your marriage? Or when postpartum challenges put intimacy on pause? In this LIVE recording from the EROS Marriage Weekend, Adam and Karissa tackle real questions from couples and share practical tools to strengthen your connection.
You’ll hear about creative ways to initiate intimacy (hello, candle system 🕯️), navigating emotional differences sh
"I'm a child SEX TRAFFICKING survivor"
We’re back this week with another round of anonymous questions from our live text line at the EROS Marriage Weekend! So many thoughtful, heartfelt, and vulnerable questions came in that we couldn’t address them all during the event—so we’re tackling them here on the podcast!
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We’re keeping it real, unfiltered, and packed with practical wisdom to help you and your spouse grow together. And this i
“Has my WEIGHT GAIN ruined my SEX LIFE?”
We’re back this week with another round of anonymous questions from our live text line at the EROS Marriage Weekend! There were so many insightful, heartfelt, and spicy questions that we couldn’t get to them all during the event—so we’re answering them here on the podcast!
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We’re keeping it honest, unfiltered, and packed with practical wisdom to help you and your spouse grow stronger together. A
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