The Baddest Bitch in the Building
Join Neeki, your favourite Machiavellian Barbie, every Wednesday to learn how to take advantage of the patriarchy's loopholes and to unlearn the patriarchal conditioning keeping us small, quiet, nice girls. The podcast aims to teach listeners how to play the game and break the rules to change the system.
Episodes
The hidden way patriarchy keeps you poor
Tickets for my Toronto meet & greet and party: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/bad-btch-bash-tickets-2003183354337?aff=oddtdtcreator🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.The patriarchy has tag teamed with its friends capitalis
Patriarchy Hack #39: Strategically leave certain things unfinished
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Second last Hack y'all!!! We're going to discuss how to apply the Zeigarnik effect (leaving things unfinished) as a way to navigate through the patriarchy and through life in genera
The 6 behaviours of highly confident women
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.The title says it all. In this episode, we're going to discuss 6 behaviours that every highly confident woman needs. Remember, no one is born with the confidence of a mediocre man. We m
The 7 levels of consciousness of a woman living in the patriarchy
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.If patriarchy were the natural order, it wouldn't need violence, coercion, and brainwashing to uphold itself.In this episode, we're going to look at brainwashing (one of the top 3 f
The dark side of corporate (that your boss hides from you)
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.The role of a corporate worker is to make rich people more money (and this is coming from an ex-corporate employee). Corporate work feels meaningless because it deprives us of consciousness
The satisfying downfall of the influencer economy
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Is it the end of the influencer era? In this episode I discuss the lies and exploitation keeping most influencers relevant. I'll also get into some data and history because the math ain't m
Patriarchy Hack #38: Create an alter ego
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Creating an alter ego is a cheat code not only in navigating the patriarchy, but in navigating life. It enables us to create a version of ourselves that's not weighed down by our fears and
I worked with some of the most powerful female execs: 7 things you need to know
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.I worked with some of the highest-ranking women in corporate Canada. Here are 7 behaviours I observed among all these women. As Machiavelli says in The Prince, appearances matter more
Has short form “women empowerment” content quietly redpilled you?
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Short form content has enshittified a lot of the discourse around women empowerment. A lot of “feminist” c
Beware the most dangerous type of friend | Machiavelli for Women Ep. 2
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Welcome to the second episode of Machiavelli for Women. In this series, I decode The Prince, one of the mo
Patriarchy Hack #37: Always have one foot out
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Commitment and loyalty are glorified ways of infantilizing ourselves. Patriarchy needs to mentally capture
There’s a big loophole in the patriarchy & it’s been hidden in ancient texts
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Patriarchy has made us believe we’re separate. It has pitted men against women, women against women, women
Patriarchy’s secret that Disney tried warning us about
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Classic Disney villains aren't just baddies with red nails, colourful eyeshadows, and arched eyebrows, the
Do NOTHING for men | Machiavelli for Women Ep. 1
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Welcome to the first episode of Machiavelli vs Patriarchy. In this series, I decode The Prince, one of the
Stop giving people the benefit of the doubt
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.First things first, make sure to watch until the VERY END of the episode...you'll know what I mean.Second
Patriarchy Hack #36: Avoid nostalgia like the plague
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Patriarchy fetishizes youth and disdains aging. On top of that, it also functions based on zero-sum thinki
The 5 habits that trigger people to lose respect for you
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.No self-improvement journey is complete without unlearning our internalized patriarchy. This doesn't only
There's an entire side of patriarchy you know nothing about
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚 Read more about 20 ways to unlearn how the patriarchy groomed us. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.The patriarchy is a textbook example of the law of inversion: what we see isn't the truth, it's a defence mechanism. In fa
5 sneaky examples of medical misogyny: which ones have you faced?
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚 Want a better, expanded version of the first 20 Patriarchy Hacks in book format? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Women are not small men, yet for decades medical research has treated us as such. What's even worse is that
Patriarchy Hack #35: Never do anything with the expectation of gratitude
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚 Want a better, expanded version of the first 20 Patriarchy Hacks in book format? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Doing anything with the expectation that we’ll be appreciated and recognized is a surefire path to disappoi
Your anger towards men is quietly marginalizing you
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Female rage can move mountains. As women, we have so much to be angry about, and rightfully so.However, many women get caught in the trap o
“Treat people how you want to be treated” is a scam
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.This week's episode is a bit counterintuitive. Every culture and religion (yikes) has a variation of "The Golden Rule": Treat people how yo
The ultimate revenge: The psychological power of being unbothered
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Your compulsion to argue, get the last word, or make someone "pay" for what they did to you is a projection. You think, "If I were in their
Girly law of power #34: Never argue, make them look stupid instead
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Most of us are so caught up in arguing, trying to get the last word, or shattering someone's ego that we fail to realize how GOOFY we look.
The dark side of "sprinkle sprinkle"
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Over the last few years, Shera Seven's content has taken social media by storm. Her "sprinkle sprinkle" philosophy preaches that women shou
You don't fear failure, you fear your own success
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Most of us want best for ourselves. We want the dream job, salary, house. But that's all it is: a want.You can't want something and have it
Life in a patriarchy is a game...and it's time to win
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Life is a game and it’s rigged. Some say we should opt out altogether. Others say we should play by the rules and hope for the best.Th
Your focus on healing is silently holding you back
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Healing is great. It's an act of self-love and self-care. However, healing won't prevent you from ending up in the same situation that hurt
Girly law of power #33: Trigger people’s need to prove themselves to you
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Most women think we need chase people/things. That's because patriarchy has brainwashed us to think we need to prove ourselves in order to
You're not mean enough
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Niceness is a way of grooming women for extraction. We're brainwashed into thinking it's more important to be liked than to be respected, a
How to use mansplainers to your advantage
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Mansplainers are the unpaid interns of the patriarchy. Annoying, yes. Useful, also yes.In this episode, I break down a simple psychological
How to stop over explaining yourself: The hidden social rule you need to know
📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.In this episode, I talk about why so many women feel the need to keep explaining themselves. Over explaining often comes from people pleasing, fear of judgment, and subtle so
Girly law of power #32: Stop trying to be understood by everyone
📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.We've made it to law #32! Not that it's a particularly important number...I'm just grateful to have all you baddies here <3Being understood is bloody exhausting. It's also
Everything you need to know about your menstrual cycle & how to sync it with your life
📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.In this episode, I break down every week of our menstrual cycle and to help you understand what’s happening hormonally, what your body needs from you, and how you can sync yo
Smart women can’t afford to romanticize love
📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.From the time we're little girls, we're taught that romantic love is something we should aspire to. That when we grow up, we have to find Mr. Right and marry him for love. An
Can you trust your coworkers?
📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.In this highly-requested episode, we’re going to discuss the question everyone’s asked at some point: Can you trust your coworkers?Because I’m a Machiavellian Barbie and not
Girly law of power #31: Be the fantasy woman
📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.People don't want the truth, they want what's going to make them feel better. And that's exactly what the fantasy woman does.Too many women are caught up in the Righteousness
Why the biological clock is a damaging patriarchal myth
📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or purchase the signed paperback, PDF or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here.You won't believe what I'm about to tell you. Women don't have a "biological clock." That term was coined by journalist Richard Cohen in his misogynistic 1978 article "The Clock Is Ticking For The C
7 lessons that will save you from a toxic relationship (I spent 5 years in one)
📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.This episode is a listener requested topic on my origin story. I'll briefly discuss the god awful relationship I was in for 5 YEARS. Then I'll discuss 7 lessons we can all le
7 ways to make your feminine rage work for you
📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.Feminine/female rage is the righteous anger we feel at a world that subjugates and violates us daily. Female rage has become a ubiquitous topic, but it’s time we discuss how
Girly law of power #30: Use people’s big egos to your advantage
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The 5 love languages: Genuine advice or Christian control in disguise?
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here.Most people think the five love languages are a pop psychology phenomenon. However, they're not rooted in psychology at all. The origins of the five love languages are closer to the Bible than to science, and they were never made as a too
I turn 28 tomorrow & I'm terrified of aging
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here.Tomorrow is my 28th birthday & I want to open up about a fear I've had for most of my 20s: aging.__________🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. I
Patriarchy demonized gossip because it hates when women speak
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here.Most of us think of gossip as something malicious. However, for centuries, gossip had no negative connotation. A woman's "gossip" were her close friends, and female friendships were a form of social power that gave women's lives fulfillme
Religion groomed girls so we'd never realize Woman is god
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here.Have you ever wondered why every Abrahamic religion treats menstruating women as dirty and spiritually contaminated? That’s because religion took creation – something that’s uniquely feminine – and attributed it to a male god. And because
SUNDAY SCHOOL: The real reason you keep getting ghosted
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here.Have you ever wondered why someone ghosted you? I bet you felt pretty crappy afterward, and spent days thinking of something you said or did that pushed the person away. You probably replayed your interactions over and over again to spot
Girly law of power #29: Stop being afraid of being alone
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here.Society tells us the major “accomplishments” in a woman’s life are getting married and having kids. Both of which are actions that bring people into her life. Unfortunately, most of what’s celebrated in women is about distracting us from
SUNDAY SCHOOL: How to fix feminism's branding problem
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here.Fun fact: Feminism is a response to patriarchy.Baddies welcome to my new weekly mini-series, Sunday School, where I share a small lesson from my new book, How to Hack the Patriarchy. This one's from the introduction.Class is in session, a
Every time you leave something to chance, someone smarter takes your spot
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here.Every time you tell yourself you're "hoping for the best" or you're "gonna see what happens," you're doing what the patriarchy wants you to do. You're relinquishing control and leaving your fate to what's out there.And let me remind you w
She who does less always gets more
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here.I'm sure you want people to do more for you, especially your partner. Maybe even your coworkers. Unfortunately, because most women are conditioned to perform constant emotional labour, there's a specific behaviour you need to stop if you
Delusional thinking is a power move
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here.Your tendency to be realistic is robbing you of the future you deserve. From girlhood, most of us have been discouraged from being "too" ambitious because it violates the traditional trajectory of a woman's life: go to school, get a job,
Girly law of power #28: Act spoiled to get treated better
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here.Spoiled girls get whatever they want, while low maintenance girls get what they're given. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being spoiled — a spoiled woman is simply someone with a high sense of worth, who knows what she wants, and ne
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Every time you choose YOURSELF, you kick patriarchy in the balls [pt. 5/5]
Patriarchy’s biggest fear: women’s choice.In episode 5 of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership, we uncover why choice is the real revolution—the one thing power can’t monetize.From work to marriage to money, control only works when women stop choosing. Because at the end of the day, it’s all a fight over the world’s most valuable resource: women. These system
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The “empowerment” lie women are sold [pt. 4/5]
Freedom looks different when you have to buy it.In episode 4 of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership, we uncover how capitalism rebranded servitude as female empowerment.From the post-Reagan era to the rise of influencer feminism, the system sold women “freedom” that still serves profit.While men have to make money to prove their worth, women are taught to&nb
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How men accidentally became obsolete [pt. 3/5]
Patriarchy wasn’t built to serve women — but it was never built to serve most men either.In this third episode of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism's toxic relationship, we break down how patriarchy accidentally made men obsolete. When capitalism tied masculinity to money and productivity, men became workers before all else. That’s how they received their patriarchal dividends.When sec
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Why the nuclear family keeps patriarchy alive [pt. 2/5]
The nuclear family wasn’t built for love – it was built for labour.In the second episode of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership, we break down how the nuclear family became an economic machine that keeps both systems alive. From the rise of private property to the post-war suburban ideal, this episode exposes how family structure was engineere
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How patriarchy started [pt. 1/5]
Patriarchy wasn’t born – it was built.In the first episode of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership, we break down how power, property, and control over women’s labor built the world’s oldest system of domination – one that still shapes our lives today.This is the blueprint of male power, the origin story patriarchy doesn’t want you to know.If you’ve
Girly law of power #27: Start being mean
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here.Niceness is a scam. Being "nice" describes someone who is polite and pleasant to be around, focusing on surface-level interactions and social harmony. It's a performance. It's how the patriarchy grooms us for exploitation and disrespect,
Calling yourself a "high value woman" isn't empowering
You're not a Pokemon or some kind of collectible, but the wrong type of people will see you as a commodity, something to collect. In this episode, we discuss why the term "high value woman" is not only icky, but counterproductive. Like most things in this world, we can't do what men do and expect the same result. This also goes for labels men use to try and prove their worth.About the podcast: Pat
Girly law of power #26: Stop being so available
We've been bamboozled into thinking that the more we're present and the more we prove ourselves, the more people will respect us. This is a load of crap. The truth is that the more people see you, the less they notice you. They'll take you for granted and respect you less. In this episode, we'll discuss:The most valuable form of giving (that you're probably doing too much of)Why we've been conditi
I haven't been feeling like myself lately
Not gonna lie, editing this icked me out. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
The truth about online "divine femininity"
Being a woman is a gift, it's the highest form of being. Everything exists because of a woman, and we should celebrate and love ourselves unconditionally.Lately, there’s been a wave of online “divine femininity” content that looks empowering at first… but it’s really patriarchy dressed up as spirituality. It tells women that to be “in our feminine” we need to sit back, receive, and let men lead, p
Girly law of power #25: Treat excuses as data, not truth
"People never do something just once" - Robert GreeneThere's no such thing as an isolated incident, because people's actions are always part of a pattern of behaviour. However, the patriarchy made us believe the complete opposite, because accepting excuses keeps power where it is. The patriarchy is based on repetition: people repeat the same behaviours, institutions repeat the same patterns, cultu
Why people pleasing traps you in mental poverty
People pleasing is rooted in superstitions like "If I give everything, then I'll finally be enough" and "If someone likes me, then I'll finally like myself." This way of thinking puts us in mental poverty, which keeps us trapped in survival mode. It's perfect for people who want to exploit our lack of boundaries, and it's harmful for us in every way.🌸 IG:
Girly law of power #24: Let go of the need to be liked
We're taught from a very young age that our social acceptance depends on being liked. However, the patriarchy assumes women will always want to be liked, so it relies on that desire to keep us compliant & constantly seeking social approval.The thing is, most people don't even like themselves. So who cares if they don't like you. Besides, you're in a much better position to get what you want fr
Beware of "woke" men, they're dangerous
We tend to think that the alpha, macho men are dangerous because of their superiority complex (which is rooted in an inferiority complex). BUT what if I told you there's a category of men who are even more dangerous? They have a hidden agenda, a goal in mind, and they're clever enough to know how to push a woman's buttons. In this episode (whose topic you baddies voted on!), I get into why we need
Girly law of power #23: Stop competing with other women
Scarcity leads to competition which leads to dehumanization.One of the gears that keeps the patriarchy turning is zero-sum thinking -- the belief that there's only a fixed amount of success, power, attention, or value to go around. So if someone else gets more, you must get less. This brainwashes us into believing in a scarcity mindset, which keeps us in the eternal rat race. Instead of seeing oth
Is falling in love a patriarchal trap?
As little girls, many of us fantasize about falling in love and getting married. But boys don't do the same. Men don't romanticize falling in love, getting married, and being husbands in the way women do. It's not their life's goal to fall in love. They don't see marriage as an accomplishment. In this episode, we'll get into the truth behind "love."I'll discuss what's really happening to our brain
Girly law of power #22: Use elicitation to bypass gatekeepers & egos
This one's crazy because we'll be discussing how to use an FBI-backed technique to get past the gatekeepers and the egos controlling the patriarchy. Because when we really boil it down, the patriarchy is just a bunch of insecure dudes who've institutionalized gatekeeping.We'll discuss:Why we can't simply ask for things outrightThe mindset that keeps us stuck in limbo, asking for permission & w
Girly law of power #21: Stop giving the benefit of the doubt
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here.If you're a sharp, clever woman but you find yourself being taken advantage of, this law is for you. While grace and forgiveness can be good things, giving most people the benefit of the doubt is a naive thing to do, especially as a woman
8 types of anti-seducers: are you one of them?
Welcome to part 2 of my two-part series on 🌹seduction🌹If you've ever felt frustrated that people don't seem to listen to you and take you seriously, or if you struggle with hyper-independence, self-sabotage, and masculine tendencies -- this is for you babe. This episode is all about 🥀anti-seduction🥀 and how it might be interfering with your ability to navigate and hack the patriarchy.We discuss:Th
Girly law of power #20: Master the art of non-sexual seduction
WE HIT LAW 2️⃣0️⃣!!! To celebrate making it to this milestone, I’ve prepared a 2-part series for you on 🌹seduction🌹 If you're listening to this today, you're one of the OG baddies and I'm sosososo grateful for you ❤️ In this episode, I’m going to discuss how you can use the art of non-sexual seduction to grease people up (especially men), put them under your enchantment, and get what you want
How morality has held women back for millennia
I'm back with Talia and we're discussing one of our fave topics: mOraLitY. In this chaotic convo we dive into:What morality even isHow she's related to her evil, ugly step sisters (guilt, shame, and fear)Why morality a tool used to control women and convince us that we need to be good girlsWhat to replace morality withSabrina Carpenter and Sexyy Red (the duo no one asked for) as examples of why it
Girly law of power #19: Treat your demons as your employees
We've been socialized to hide half of who we are. To repress traits that would help our success, like assertiveness, ambition, and self-prioritization. To be nice, agreeable, non-confrontational girls. To be the version of the woman who keeps the patriarchy alive. I say ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!In this episode, we discuss:Why suppressing our demons actually makes us easy to manipulateHow most women are li
The ultimate patriarchy hack: being childfree (ft. "The Girl With The List" aka @z00mie)
I’m sure many of y’all know Abigail Porter aka @z00mie aka “The Girl With The List.” Abigail has built a following of over 1 million people with her content on destigmatizing the childfree lifestyle and educating women on what having kids is really like. 🍒 Follow Abigail on TikTok and Instagram, and check out her upcoming merch line herePS remember to take your birth control!!
Girly law of power #18: Refuse labels and become a shapeshifter
The woman no one can label is the woman no one can control, because you can't control what you can't define.In this episode, we discuss:How to avoid being like everyone else who dislikes themselves & try to conformAn example of a pop star who continues to use this law with crazy success (hint: she's in the 17th year of her career)Why "I just want to be myself" and "I don't want to play games"
💍 Discussing patriarchal roots of wedding traditions & debunking wedding myths (with Victoria Alario, host of For the Girls podcast)
I sit down with confidence coach Victoria Alario to discuss how she planned her wedding in under a year with no stress and burnout, and without losing herself in the process. If you’re planning a wedding or think that it will be "the best day of your life," this one's for you.We discuss:How to put your foot down and say "no"Whether wedding invites and plus ones should be reciprocatedHow to plan a
Life is a game & it's time to win 💕 [podcast trailer]
Welcome to all the bad bitches. Bum bitches stay on lookout. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Girly law of power #17: Act like a winner before you even won
💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, a 1-minute read that will change the way you see the world, delivered twice monthly on FridaysThe difference between victims and winners is that winners act on circumstances, while victims wait for circumstances to be fair. Which they never will be. As women, we need to master the art of acting like a winner, even when we feel like a big fat loser.In this
Why dating apps have ruined dating for women & where to look instead (with Princezz Talia)
Dating apps are one of the worst things to happen to humanity in the 21st century. In this episode,Talia & I discuss:The connection between capitalism and datings apps (Big Dating!!)Why "non-traditional" apps are even worse than the regular ones, like Bumble (where women have to message first) or Raya (where you need to apply for the app)How these apps take women out of their feminine energy/t
