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It Ends With You

It Ends With You

Patricia Diaz-Kismarton 9 Episodes Aug 13, 2026

It Ends With You is a podcast about breaking inherited family patterns and reclaiming your truth. Hosted by Patricia Díaz-Kismarton, it features real, everyday people sharing honest stories about subtle family dynamics. Each episode ends with Patricia's reflections and insights drawn from her coaching work, offering a grounded perspective on breaking cycles. New episodes are released one to two times a month. Patricia is a certified conscious parenting coach trained in generational trauma therapy.

Episodes

The Hidden Family Pattern That Keeps Us Stuck
The Hidden Family Pattern That Keeps Us Stuck Aug 13, 2026 775 Have you ever found yourself caught in the middle of someone else's conflict? Or perhaps you've reached out to someone else before having the difficult conversation you knew you needed to have?In this short solo episode, I explore the often-overlooked family dynamic of triangulation. What it is, why so many of us unconsciously fall into it, and how it quietly keeps relationships stuck. I
The Patterns That Live in Our Nervous System
The Patterns That Live in Our Nervous System Aug 6, 2026 2989 Hazel Swayne grew up in a home filled with love, and unpredictability. As a child, she learned to protect others, keep the peace, and make sure everyone around her was okay. Those patterns followed her into adulthood, shaping how she parented, led, and showed up in relationships.In this conversation, Hazel shares how learning to set healthier boundaries has transformed her parenting and the legacy
How We Stop Passing Pain to Our Children
How We Stop Passing Pain to Our Children Jul 23, 2026 3387 We often believe healing happens the moment we understand our past. But awareness is only the beginning. In this conversation, I sit down with Genoveva La Placa to explore what happens after we recognize the patterns we've inherited. Together we discuss how true transformation comes through practice, presence, and the courage to respond differently, even when old patterns still feel familiar.
When the Inherited Story No Longer Fits
When the Inherited Story No Longer Fits Jul 10, 2026 2280 As a child, Sophie learned that being responsible, high-achieving, and easy was the safest way to earn love and attention. Beneath her success lived inherited beliefs about worth, security, independence, and what it meant to be a woman.In this conversation, Sophie shares how the loss of her father, the influence of two very different female role models, and her struggle to decide whether to have c
The Hidden Cost of Hyper-Independence
The Hidden Cost of Hyper-Independence Jun 26, 2026 2758 In this episode, I sit down with physician, executive coach, and lifelong learner Aparna Ananth to explore what happens when the identities we've built our lives around begin to fall away.From a childhood marked by emotional self-reliance to a successful career in medicine and leadership, Aparna shares how a fiercely independent protector helped her survive, achieve, and thrive. But when a sa
When Being Good Stops Feeling Like You
When Being Good Stops Feeling Like You Jun 11, 2026 2741 What if healing isn’t becoming someone new… but remembering who you’ve always been?Chelsea grew up feeling loved and supported. And yet, somewhere along the way, she learned to stay small, avoid conflict, and earn belonging through being “good.” In this episode, Chelsea shares how motherhood, illness, and deep self-reflection helped her recognize inherited patterns and begin choosing herself diffe
The Wedding Planner Within: A Story of Control, Survival & Integration
The Wedding Planner Within: A Story of Control, Survival & Integration May 28, 2026 2669 As a child, Leslie sensed something wasn’t right long before she had words for it. After being taken from her home, growing up across countries, navigating instability, and later experiencing abuse, she developed one powerful strategy to survive: control.In this deeply honest conversation, Leslie shares how that protector showed up throughout her life through perfectionism, bulimia, achievement, w
“I Just Wanted to Be Loved”: How Childhood Loss Shapes The Way We Chase and Sabotage Love
“I Just Wanted to Be Loved”: How Childhood Loss Shapes The Way We Chase and Sabotage Love May 4, 2026 2754 In this episode of It Ends With You, we explore the first phase of cycle-breaking: Awakening; the moment you begin to notice that something doesn’t feel right anymore, even if you can’t fully explain why.Melanie shares her deeply personal journey of growing up with loss, loneliness, and the impact it had on how she showed up in relationships. From intense jealousy and fear of abandonment to overgi
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Trailer May 4, 2026 70 It Ends With You is a space for courageous conversations about interrupting inherited patterns, reclaiming your truth, and freeing future generations. Hosted by Patricia Díaz-Kismarton, this podcast features real, everyday people sharing honest stories of the subtle family dynamics that often go unnamed. At the end of each episode, Patricia offers reflections and insights drawn from her work with

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