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This Feels Familiar with Minaa B.

This Feels Familiar with Minaa B.

Minaa B. 83 Episodes Aug 11, 2026

This Feels Familiar with Minaa B. is a weekly podcast hosted by therapist, author, and creator of The Siblinghood Theory, Minaa B. Each episode explores how belonging, conflict, and relational patterns shape our lives. The show helps listeners recognize and break repetitive patterns that cause that familiar feeling of being stuck. It offers insights into changing these patterns for personal growth.

Episodes

82: Signs You Struggle With Emotional Intimacy (And How to Change That)
82: Signs You Struggle With Emotional Intimacy (And How to Change That) Aug 11, 2026 2347 In this episode, Minaa B. explores emotional intimacy—what it is, why it's essential in all relationships, and the signs you're struggling with it. Sources cited in this episode: Gottman & Silver (2015) - Research on open and honest communication in couples and relationship satisfaction Laurenceau et al. - Research on couples with high emotional closeness and relationship satisfaction
81: How to Stop Catastrophic Thinking: It's Hurting You and Your Relationships
81: How to Stop Catastrophic Thinking: It's Hurting You and Your Relationships Aug 4, 2026 1855 In this episode, Minaa B. explores catastrophic thinking—the anxious brain's tendency to jump from small triggers straight to worst-case outcomes—and how this pattern sabotages both mental health and relationships. Resources Website: minaab.com Newsletter:  ⁠⁠⁠Subscribe here Order my book: Owning Our Struggles⁠⁠⁠ Stay Connected! ⁠Instagram LinkedIn⁠  Facebook⁠⁠⁠ Learn more a
80: How to Make and Sustain Friendships as an Adult
80: How to Make and Sustain Friendships as an Adult Jul 28, 2026 1890 In this episode, Minaa B. addresses one of the hardest things about adulthood: making and sustaining friendships. She shares research on adult loneliness and how friendships naturally decline without proximity and intentional effort. Minaa explores the barriers to friendship, then breaks down concrete steps for making friends. SOURCES CITED IN THIS EPISODE American Perspectives Survey (2021
79:  How to Set Firm Boundaries: The Difference Between Kindness & Niceness
79: How to Set Firm Boundaries: The Difference Between Kindness & Niceness Jul 21, 2026 1860 In this episode, Minaa B. explores the crucial difference between being nice and being kind—and why this distinction is transforming how people show up in their relationships. She breaks down how niceness prioritizes others' comfort over your own well-being, while kindness involves telling the truth and setting boundaries. Resources Website: minaab.com Newsletter:  ⁠⁠⁠Subscribe here
78: The Longevity Hack No One Is Talking About: Healthy Relationships
78: The Longevity Hack No One Is Talking About: Healthy Relationships Jun 23, 2026 1844 In this episode, Minaa B. examines what unhealthy relationships actually look like—and why people normalize them. She breaks down six key signs of unhealthy relationships and explores why people don't recognize these patterns. The episode covers romantic relationships, friendships, family dynamics, and sibling relationships—recognizing that relationship quality is one of the biggest predictors o
77: Healing Childhood Wounds in Dating
77: Healing Childhood Wounds in Dating Jun 9, 2026 1467 In this episode, Minaa B. explores how childhood wounds—specifically emotional neglect and abandonment—show up in your dating patterns and sabotage your relationships. She also examines the often-overlooked role of sibling dynamics in shaping these wounds, including golden child/scapegoat patterns that compound feelings of unworthiness. Minaa breaks down how these wounds manifest in dating and o
76: When They Won't Change: Grieving the Relationship That Won't Heal
76: When They Won't Change: Grieving the Relationship That Won't Heal Jun 2, 2026 2069 In this episode, Minaa B. addresses a question she hears constantly in therapy: "What else can I do to make this relationship work?" She explores the signs that you've already done enough, examines why we keep trying, and guides listeners through the painful shift from "How do I fix this?" to "Can I make peace with this relationship being what it is?" Resources Website: minaab.com Newsletter
75: That Never Ending Feeling That You're Not Enough
75: That Never Ending Feeling That You're Not Enough May 26, 2026 1897 In this episode, Minaa B. addresses the persistent feeling of not being enough that many people carry from childhood emotional neglect. She explores what emotional neglect teaches about worth—that love is conditional, needs are too much, and you're fundamentally lacking—and why this wound is so hard to heal. Resources Work with me: Book a 1:1 therapy consultation. Website: minaab.com Newsl
74: Shame Isn't a Boundary: Stop Policing Normal Human Behavior
74: Shame Isn't a Boundary: Stop Policing Normal Human Behavior May 12, 2026 1887 In this episode, Minaa B. explores a pattern she's seeing: people using morally charged, shame-based language to control others' behavior instead of exercising their own agency through boundaries. She examines how terms like "invasive," "rude," and "offensive" are used to police normal communication behaviors rather than to develop assertiveness and boundaries. Minaa breaks down where your age
73: You Don't Have Imposter Syndrome, You Have a Scarcity Blueprint
73: You Don't Have Imposter Syndrome, You Have a Scarcity Blueprint May 5, 2026 2073 In this episode, Minaa B. reframes imposter syndrome as a scarcity blueprint—a relational pattern learned in childhood, not a personal failing. She explores the roots of chronic self-doubt through the first dimension of The Siblinghood Theory: Competition and Scarcity. Minaa examines how growing up competing with siblings and peers for limited love, attention, and recognition creates a blueprint
72: Sibling Codependency: When You Can't Function Apart
72: Sibling Codependency: When You Can't Function Apart Apr 28, 2026 1595 In this episode, Minaa B. explores sibling codependency—when closeness crosses into enmeshment and siblings can't function independently. She defines what sibling codependency looks like, why it develops and gives special attention to twins who are often expected to be a single unit rather than two separate people. Minaa then breaks down the crucial distinction between codependency and healthy c
71: Are You The Functional Eldest Child? How Parentification Impacted Middle & Younger Siblings
71: Are You The Functional Eldest Child? How Parentification Impacted Middle & Younger Siblings Apr 21, 2026 2140 In this episode, Minaa B. challenges the narrative that only eldest daughters are parentified by giving voice to middle and younger children who were forced to become the "functional eldest" in their families. She explores five key reasons why middle and younger children end up carrying adult responsibilities and how parentification fundamentally distorts sibling relationships by creating resent

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