Such A Woman
Such A Woman is a podcast that encourages women to embrace their divine purpose. Host Dae'l Pasco focuses on helping listeners break generational curses, overcome personal obstacles, and make a positive impact. Episodes blend etiquette, mindset coaching, and biblical principles to guide women in becoming the wives, mothers, and leaders they are called to be. The show aims to inspire confidence and a commitment to living beyond the bare minimum.
Episodes
Femininity That Glorifies God, Not Self
In a culture where femininity has become performance, this episode calls you back to purpose.True femininity isn’t an aesthetic , it’s the essence of womanhood - an assignment that comes with anointing. Although beauty is used to draw others in, being set apart is what leads others to Christ. Dae’l Pasco invites you into a conversation that exposes the subtle shift from glory to self-glorification
Your Obedience is Being Targeted. So Chill... It's Just Conformational Warfare.
When things start to feel a little “off the wall,” it’s easy to slip into frustration, emotional instability, or self-pity. But often, the warfare you’re facing isn’t random... it’s confirmational. It’s evidence of what God has promised, instructed, or allowed.In today’s episode, Dae’l shares real-time insight on navigating those intense moments with grace, faith, and emotional maturity. You’ll le
Before They Lied... You Lied to Yourself.
Before anyone else deceives us… we often deceive ourselves.In this episode, Dae’l uncovers the heart-truth behind why we tolerate lies from others; not because they’re so skilled at deception, but because somewhere along the way, we’ve already agreed with something untrue internally.From fear and comfort to control and misplaced hope, self-deception quietly sets the stage for external deception. D
Stop Trying To Be "That Girl."
Somewhere along the way, “that girl" became the standard. The flawless routines, the curated aesthetics, the image every woman is subtly told to chase. But who is she really? And why are we binding ourselves to girlhood, when Heaven has called us to walk boldly in womanhood?In this episode, Dae’l Pasco helps you release the pressure to perform or conform; not because you’re lacking, but because yo
What Is Life, Really? Update.
It’s been a while since I sat behind the mic with you. Life since November has been full, stretching me, surprising me, and quietly reshaping how I see womanhood, pleasure, and purpose.In this episode I’m opening the journal pages of the past months: What slowed me down and what’s been quietly emerging . How God has been teaching me to pause, listen, and trust the hidden work. The beauty of act
When God Opens New Doors
Are you waiting for someone to tell you it’s your turn? Sis, God has already called you, equipped you, and prepared the table for you to sit confidently in the place He’s set aside for you.
In this episode of Such A Woman, we dive deep into overcoming fear, breaking through doubt, and walking boldly in the purpose God has designed for your life. This is your reminder: you don’t have to wait for p
Timeless Habits of Productivity: High Achieving Christian Women’s Guide to Success
In this episode of the Such A Woman , Dae'l explores timeless habits of productivity that every high-achieving Christian woman can implement to transform her daily life. Whether you're balancing your career, family, or ministry, these practical strategies will help you stay aligned with your God-given purpose while achieving your goals with grace and efficiency.
You'll discover:
The biblical per
Becoming A Wealthy Woman Starts Here
Imagine how wealthy you'd become if you stopped:
- Making excuses
- Surrounding yourself with people committed to remaining the same
- Trying to win, to prove the doubters wrong
- Overpromising and underdelivering
- Denying yourself access to rooms granted to you
- Attempting to change everything at the same time
If you'd change your mind, simplify your life, put the work in, and show up con
Be The Wife Who Builds Her Home | Kill Your Pride
In this episode, we’re exposing a spirit many women shy away from: pride. When left unchecked, pride can quietly disrupt intimacy, hinder communication, and prevent the growth that marriage requires. But there is incredible freedom in humility—a quality that invites understanding, peace, and connection into your marriage. Press play to explore what it looks like to kill pride and embrace humility
Becoming A Gentle Feminine Woman
Sis, it's ok to soften up. Femininity and gentleness are often misunderstood, but these qualities can unlock a strength in you. In this episode, I’m sharing tips on how to embody elegance, embrace emotional intelligence, and build resilience without hardening your heart. If you want the keys to becoming a gentle feminine woman, watch to rediscover how that truly looks and why it’s one of the most
Sis, You Need to Let Those Walls Down In The Bedroom. Here's How.
Feeling emotionally safe in your marriage is the key to deeper physical intimacy. In this video, How to Be More Vulnerable with Your Husband in the Bedroom, I’m sharing tips on how to open up without fear, shame, or insecurity holding you back. Vulnerability isn’t just about sharing your desires—it’s about building trust and emotional safety so both of you can connect fully. Whether you’ve struggl
Habits of Wealthy Women, and Things You Need to Start Today.
In this episode, we’re getting into the habits of wealthy women, and things you need to start today to become a magnet for financial success and abundance. It’s not just about having money—it’s about becoming the type of woman whose mindset, routines, and daily habits align with the wealth she desires. Whether you're just starting your financial journey or have been making changes, these insights
After This, You'll See The Blessing In Being Rejected and Disappointed. Trust.
Life after rejection is a thing. Yea they said “no,” the relationship ended, or maybe you didn’t get what you wanted. Guess what? Now is not the time to play small or lay down at your pity party… Get up and see the blessing in that "no."
Rejection isn’t the end — it’s a setup for a new opportunity. Learn how to stop shrinking, stay resilient, and bounce back stronger than ever. If you’ve ever fel
It's Really You vs. You. Stop Making Excuses and Make Some Moves
Dating Emotionally Unavailable Men? Here’s How It’s Stifling Your Feminine Flow.
Are you constantly feeling drained or stuck in your relationships? In this episode, Dae'l digs deep into how dating emotionally unavailable men can block your feminine flow, stifle your personal growth, and prevent you from flourishing in your full, authentic self.
We explore the subtle signs of emotional unavailability, the spiritual and emotional impact it has on your life, and most importantly,
Steps To Get a Head Start on 2025 and Level Up Before 2024 Ends
Don’t wait for the new year to reset your life and meet some goals. Start leveling up today!
In this episdoe, I’m sharing actionable tips and strategies to help you get a head start on 2025. Learn to set goals, plan, build habits that stick, and break your big goals into manageable steps. It's not too late to become the woman of your dreams this year.
Why Treating Your Man Like a Child Is Hurting Your Relationship
In today’s episode of She's So Soft, we're getting into a common, yet overlooked issue that many women face in their relationships—treating their men like they’re their sons. While nurturing comes naturally to us, there's a fine line between caring for your man and mothering him, and crossing that line can seriously damage the relationship.
We'll explore how this dynamic can strip
Babe, When You Feel Like Giving Up, Don't. Trust God w/ Your Whole Heart.
In this episode of She's So Soft, Dae'l is reaching out to every woman who feels like the weight of the world is on her shoulders. Experiences of life can get heavy, and when the challenges seem insurmountable, it's easy to feel like giving up. But remember, you don’t have to go through it alone.
Today, we'll get into the power of trusting God with your whole heart, especially when
The Man You Entertain Will Upgrade Your Life or Ruin It. Date with Your Standards in Mind.
In this week’s episode of She's So Soft, we're diving into a topic that every woman needs to hear: "The Man You Entertain Will Upgrade Your Life or Ruin It. Date with Your Standards in Mind."
Let's be real about the power of connection, especially when it comes to romantic relationships. The man you choose to entertain has the potential to either elevate your life or pull yo
The Real Problem with Believing A Man Should Be Able to "Handle" You.
In this episode of "She's So Soft," we're getting into the misconceptions surrounding the idea that a man should be able to "handle" a woman. Many women believe that being strong-willed, stubborn or independent means challenging a man to prove his love by managing or controlling them. However, this mindset often leads to misunderstandings, conflicts, and unmet expectati
Living in The Regrets of Yesterday is Why you Can't Move Forward with Today. Move On.
Babe, when you're constantly dwelling on the shoulda's, woulda's and coulda's of yesterday... You stunt your own growth and deny yourself the permission to level up in life.
In this episode, I share my experience of being stuck in what was, how I forgave myself for being ignorantly immature, and ways you can do the same - TODAY.
Tune in and don't forget to follow for weekly e
You Aren't Who You Were; That's Why You're Being Tried
Welcome to this week's episode: "You Aren't Who You Were, That's Why You're Being Tried." Your host Dae'l explores how temptations and distractions often come to pull us back into our old identities and disrupt the incredible work God is doing in our lives right now.
As we grow and become, it's natural to face challenges that test our commitment to the new paths w
Sis... You Are Not His Doormat
Welcome back to She's So Soft, your sanctuary for embracing gentleness and femininity. This week’s episode, 'You Are Not His Doormat,' is dedicated to all the Christian wives who honor their husbands, yet sometimes find themselves struggling with blurred lines between honor and being mistreated.
In this episode, we will explore what it means to honor your husband while maintaining your
A Gentle Woman is A Favored Woman
When a woman lives with a hardened heart, she hinders her life, can become a liability to others, and often has to work extremely hard to make things happen.
In this episode of She’s So Soft, you will learn:
The problem with adopting a hardened exterior and its impact on your life.
A secret key that will help you unlock unmerited favor in your life, with both men and women.
How gentleness ca
When A Man Loves You Right
When A Man Loves You Right, everything changes.
In this episode of 'She's So Soft,' I will help you understand the difference between a man who just says he loves you and the man who truly means it.
We'll get into:
The signs of true, authentic love.
How to distinguish between genuine affection and superficial interest.
The emotional and spiritual growth that comes from being
You Don't Have to Be Hard.
In this episode, I invite you to rid yourself of every rock, pebble, and stone that's taking up residence in your heart.
Being a woman who's constantly defending her toughness, attraction to thugs, and why she's always been rough gets exhausting real fast.
If you're ready to do the work to dig up and trash every excuse used to remain in self-protection mode, and become the powerf
Girl, Stop Selling Yourself Short. Raise Your Price.
Let's get into why you downplay yourself and what you offer.
If you're pricing your services and products much lower than you know they should be... This episode is for you.
If you keep giving the same lame dude access, when you know he'd never meet your standard... This episode is for you.
If you play dumb to stay in rooms you should have left... This episode is for you.
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What makes you a high value woman?
What is a high value woman, and who determines her worth?
Sis, Stay Stuck Up; You've Been Considered
In this episode of She’s So Soft, Dae’l gets into the beauty of being considered by God- and how His consideration is your permission to Stay Stuck Up.
They Owe You Nothing
In this episode, Dae'l shares the toxicity of entitlement, ways to be a woman of gratitude when others take the time to be a blessing to you, and how to establish boundaries to not be taken advantage of.
Esther, Don't Worry About Haman
In this episode of She's So Soft, Dae'l shares keys on navigating seasons of serving amongst others who would do anything to see you (or those you love) killed and destroyed.
She shares the importance of keeping your heart pure, as you advocate for the well being of others, and stay in position for God to promote you and those connected to you.
Can Men Live A Soft Life?
We love to talk about being soft girls and the many ways men should usher us into a soft life but, let's change the script for an episode.
Let's talk about men and the lives they are living. Is it possible for men to live on the soft side on manhood, or is that something for just the ladies?
In this episode Dae'l shares ways men can become more gentler, and allow their hearts to soft
Why Would You Trust Him w/ Your Heart… Again”?
Your heart is one of your most valuable possessions, and how you care for it matters to God. Not everyone should have the privilege of receiving access to it. While dating… You have to be wise with what you share with men, how you allow them to handle you, and with upholding your standards; because the truth is… There are men who will treat you as you allow yourself to be treated - not all are mat
Don't Be Bitter, Be Better
In this episode of She's So Soft, Dae'l shares valuable tips on overcoming bitterness, resentment, and choosing to not longer live a life full of anger.
As a soft woman, it's imperative that you take the time to drop bitterness, in order to better yourself each day.
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I'm Not You and I Love That for Me
In honor of my birthday we're going to celebrate the beauty of being ourselves!
Be The Luxury; Live A Luxurious Life.
Welcome to She's So Soft, the audible sanctuary for delicate women, where we explore gentle strength with wisdom, to gracefully live in our femininity - God’s way.
It's no secret that most delicate women dream of adding a touch of luxury to her life. Tune into this episode where Dae’l discusses the significance of cultivating a luxurious character as a woman, and how this aligns seamlessl
Navigating Daddy Issues & Mommy Wounds
Welcome to She's So Soft, the audible sanctuary for delicate women, where we explore the gentle strength with wisdom, to gracefully live in our femininity.
As delicate women, it's important that we uncover the psychological challenges that may be a result of traumas inflicted by our parents, in order to heal, remain in a state of healing and wholeness, and live full & purposeful lives.
Being Connected to You Is A Privilege, Not a Right.
Welcome to She's So Soft, the audible sanctuary for delicate women, where we explore the gentle strength with wisdom, to gracefully live in our femininity.
As delicate women, we recognize that our presence is a gift—a privilege that is not granted to everyone. In this episode, 'Being Connected to You Is A Privilege, Not a Right,' Dae'l dives into the significance of setting intenti
Friend Again. How to Reestablish Friendships After They’ve Been Damaged.
Welcome to She's So Soft, the audible sanctuary for delicate women. In this episode, "Friend Again. How to Reestablish Friendships After They’ve Been Damaged," Dae'l delves into the delicate art of reestablishing friendships after they've encountered challenges.
Friendships, much like the soft strength of women, can weather storms and emerge even more resilient. Join us as we
Put On Your Clean Panties
Hey Babe, in this episode Dae'l shares how investing in and wearing clean panties impacts your confidence.
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Speak To Yourself Nice - The Power of Positive Self Talk
Babe, how you speak to yourself is very telling. If you tear yourself down, you give others permission to do the same. You can't expect others to lift you up, when you won't even do it for yourself.
In this episode, I share a few key to help you speak life into yourself always, and shut down outside words that come to do the opposite.
You're that girl, and your words should declare s
Does She Really Think She’s All That; And why does it bother you so much?
Babe, the light of women around you should never make you feel small, unseen, like waste of space, or as though you hold no value.
In this episode, Dae'l makes it clear that you are all that and some, and you should desire the next woman to live in this reality.
Knowing our value, the substance we house from God, how He's designed us, and his many thoughts about us should be more than en
Stop Comparing Yourself to Her
To the woman who's learning to keep her eyes on her own paper, enjoy who she see's staring at her in the mirror, and finally choosing to embrace the journey of her lane... This is for you.
You're amazing in all of your uniqueness and it's time you stop comparing yourself to the next woman. You can't be her. She can't be you. And it's best that way. Only you can do you
Sis, Your Emotions Don't Have to Control You
This year we're doing the work to be stable and whole women. Beginning with getting our emotions under control.
In this episode, I share some ways you can navigate your emotions, and examine your feelings in order to maintain a whole life.
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E-mail:
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Sis, He Does Not Like You
Hey Babe! We're been on a relationship streak here on She's So Soft. I want to help as many girlies as possible raise their standards, know their worth, and understand how valuable they are. There are some amazing men out here that will cherish your heart and handle it with care; however, there are also some who could care less about you, your heart, or the way he makes you feel. So... In
Dodge The Dawgs
This episode is for all of the single women with a soft heart, who find themselves entertaining and taking care of men who don't mean them well.
It's time you see what's up from the beginning so you don't waste another minute investing in a dead end relationship.
Know your worth. Know what you offer. Know when it's simple untapped potential thats mesmerizing you). Know how to
I'm Not Spoiled, I'm Loved
So... let's talk about the way some of my babes have been rejecting pure love, because others who aren't being loved correctly - if at all - are projecting their insecurities into their lives. Listen... When you're loved for real, everyone won't understand or think it's real. When you love for real, some people may think you have ulterior motives.
In this episode, I'm goin
Is It TRUE, or Is It TRAUMA?
Hey Babe! Let's talk about what's speaking in your soul.
Babe, Get A Backbone... Please.
Hey Babe! Let's navigate the complexities of assertiveness, self-empowerment, and setting boundaries.
In this candid episode, we'll explore real-life stories and I'll share practical tips on how to embrace your strength without compromising your authenticity. Whether you're navigating romantic relationships, friendships, or professional dynamics, you'll be able to identify your
Trust God with Your Heart
Welcome back to "She's So Soft"! This week, your host Dae'l Pasco invites you to dwell in the beauty of "Trusting God with Your Heart."
On the soft side of womanhood, discover the profound strength found in cradling your heart in the tender hands of God. It's not just a safe haven; it's the coziest, most secure spot you can fathom.
Entrusting your heart to God
You Can't Be His Peace
Babe, let me help you free yourself from a cycle of trying to please someone who doesn't have the capacity to receive what you're trying to give.
Peace is an inside job and no matter how much you try to become it for someone else, you'll never be able to make them accept it - especially if they have created a life of turmoil that they're faithful to.
Love yourself enough to live
Her Tears, His Heart w/ Darrell Pasco
There's a special guest joining us this week! My favorite man in the whole world... King Bae aka My Husband.
During this episode we're going to have an open and honest conversation about women'f feelings, what her tears do to his heart, some ways women tear men down, keys to helping a mans heart soften, and how to intentionally and effectively communicate to get results that work for
They'll Treat You How You Present Yourself
I know that it's not always easy navigating the sometimes harsh realities of the world. But, there's a secret hidden within each of us – our unique power to influence how others perceive and interact with us.
Tune in as we explore the subtle yet impactful ways our demeanor and persona can attract or repel the treatment we desire. I'm sharing personal stories, insights, and practical ti
It's OK To Cry.
Babe, when's the last time you cried? I mean... that real good deep cry, regardless of the situation?
On this episode, I'm going to share some of the reasons I stopped cry, why the enemy was set on making sure my tears didn't fall, and how God restored the sound of my tears.
There's a lot your tears say...
That's why you have to let them fall sometimes.
Are You An Asset or Liability
Ask yourself, are you contributing positively to your surroundings with your presence, or might you be unintentionally detracting from them? We're going to discuss various aspects of being an asset, and some of the tops reasons you should never aspire to be a liability to yourself, or others.
During our convo this week, I'll pose questions that you can ask yourself to gage where you are o
Making Time for What Matters
In this episode, Dae'l shares the importance of giving your yes to the things that truly matter, and ways to make room for what you know you should be doing - Even if that means you may have to disappoint others, or do the uncomfortable.
Nah, I Can't
In this episode of She's So Soft, learn how to honor the "no's you've set in place, in order to break people pleasing ways, help others find other solutions, and simply take control over your life.
Be It Until You See It; Letting Go of The Fake Life
Babe... Who told you that faking it until you make it was the way to succeeding and excelling in life? I'm telling you, right now... The person who told you that is not real.
Faking it only sets you up to live as an imposter.
Being it, sets you ip to win authentically. And sis... I want you to win for real.
Tune into Be It Until You See it, I'm going to walk you through letting go of th
Love Yourself The Way You Want Them to Love You
What have you been withholding from yourself because, you've been waiting on someone else to show you that you're worthy of receiving it?
In this episode, Dae'l uncovers the wisdom behind allowing God's love to fill you so much, that it enables you to love yourself, in order for you to extend that very love to others.
You Should Be High Maintenance
Babe, no matter how simple you are, your life may require more maintenance that you've realized. In this episode, Dae'l unravels the layers of what that term truly looks like.
It's time to recognize that your complex and dynamic life deserves attention, systems, care, and occasional indulgence. In a culture that sometimes expects women to silently juggle countless responsibilities... U
Misconceptions of The Soft Life
Let's get into some of the things that stains the soft life with a bad rap.
During this episode, Dae'l is going to expose some of the stigmas of the soft life that are more vain in nature, limiting, and condescending; you will be empowered by the revealing of what The Soft Life truly is, and ways you can implement some of the tools to live authentically in your soft space.
Why Is She So Soft
The Soft Life isn't created equally. That's neither a good or bad thing. If we take a moment to see the beauty of every woman's capacity for gentleness and the things alike, we may be surprised of the ways we grow to admire our differences. You may be the softest of the softest, and there's nothing wrong with that. Take a moment to listen to the benefits of having a delicate heart,
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