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The Finding Peace Podcast

The Finding Peace Podcast

Troy L Love/ Finding Peace Consulting, llc 128 Episodes Oct 13, 2026

The Finding Peace Podcast explores how the difficult experiences we go through shape the beliefs we hold about ourselves. Host Troy L Love, through Finding Peace Consulting, offers insights and practical guidance for letting go of harmful self-perceptions and embracing inner peace. The show focuses on personal healing, self-discovery, and the journey toward emotional wellbeing.

Episodes

When Past Wounds Drive Your Reactions: A Simple 3-Question Pause
When Past Wounds Drive Your Reactions: A Simple 3-Question Pause Oct 13, 2026 764 Season 8 of Finding Peace offers practical, trauma-informed tools to help you respond instead of react. In this episode Troy L. Love explores how past attachment wounds (loss, neglect, rejection, abandonment, betrayal, abuse) can trigger outsized emotional reactions to everyday moments. You'll learn a simple three-question practice: identify the facts, notice the story you made, and ask whether th
Be the Calmest Nervous System: Staying Regulated in Heated Moments
Be the Calmest Nervous System: Staying Regulated in Heated Moments Oct 8, 2026 1442 Season 8 of the Finding Peace Podcast offers practical, trauma‑informed tools to help you stay centered when emotions run high. In this episode, Troy L. Love explains how two nervous systems react to each other, how "shadows of shame" shape our responses, and why staying regulated means making space between what happened and what you do next. You'll learn clear, actionable steps: notice your body’
When You're the Trigger (But Not the Cause): Responding with Care
When You're the Trigger (But Not the Cause): Responding with Care Sep 29, 2026 859 Welcome to Season 8 of the Finding Peace Podcast, hosted by Troy L. Love. This season shares practical, trauma-informed tools to calm your nervous system and improve relationships during intense moments. In this episode, Troy explains the difference between causing pain and being a trigger. Through the story of Michael and Jenna, he shows how everyday behavior can activate old wounds, and how safe
Why We Keep Repeating Painful Patterns — And How to Change
Why We Keep Repeating Painful Patterns — And How to Change Sep 22, 2026 899 Season 8 of the Finding Peace podcast with Troy L. Love offers practical, trauma‑informed tools for when emotions run high and relationships feel heavy. This episode follows Sarah’s story to explain why we repeatedly recreate painful patterns. It reframes those patterns as learned survival strategies—familiar, not necessarily healthy—and explains that awareness alone isn’t enough. Real change happ
The Tiny Click That Changes Everything
The Tiny Click That Changes Everything Sep 15, 2026 1067 Season 8 of the Finding Peace Podcast offers practical, trauma-informed tools to help you create space between what happens and how you respond. In this episode, Troy L. Love uses the metaphor of an orthodontic expander to show how small, consistent adjustments build room for choice. Instead of trying to eliminate reactions, the episode invites you to notice when you’re activated, pause, and say,
Regulate First: Why Timing Trumps Words in Relationships
Regulate First: Why Timing Trumps Words in Relationships Sep 8, 2026 856 Season 8 of the Finding Peace Podcast offers practical, trauma-informed tools for everyday life. In this episode, host Troy L. Love tells Mike and Sarah's story to show how timing and nervous-system states, not just words, shape conversations and conflicts. The core lesson: regulate your nervous system first, then communicate. The episode includes a simple invitation to pause, check readiness, and
When 'Fine' Feels Like a Threat: How Emotional Flooding Breaks Conversations
When 'Fine' Feels Like a Threat: How Emotional Flooding Breaks Conversations Aug 31, 2026 959 Season 8 of Finding Peace offers practical, trauma-informed tools for everyday moments when emotions run high. In this episode, Troy L. Love explains emotional flooding in relationships, what it is, why it happens, and how past wounds can make small moments feel like threats. You'll learn to notice early signs of activation, pause before urgency takes over, use grounding strategies, and create a s
When Silence Becomes Survival: Understanding Shutdown in Relationships
When Silence Becomes Survival: Understanding Shutdown in Relationships Aug 24, 2026 1048 Season 8 of the Finding Peace Podcast offers practical, trauma-informed tools for everyday moments when emotions run high and relationships feel heavy. This episode explores why people shut down during conflict, how shutdown is often a nervous-system protection (freeze or collapse) rather than indifference, and shows how curiosity, compassionate language, and small, honest sentences can build a br
When Defending Disconnects: Stop Explaining, Start Connecting
When Defending Disconnects: Stop Explaining, Start Connecting Aug 10, 2026 1444 Season 8 of the Finding Peace Podcast offers practical, trauma-informed tools for everyday life. In this episode, Troy L. Love explains why we react by defending, explaining, or fixing—how shame and attachment wounds activate our nervous system and turn ordinary conversations into threats. He shares a clear four-step practice: pause, name the reaction, validate before explaining, and ask what’s ne
Why You Often Feel Worse After Calming Down
Why You Often Feel Worse After Calming Down Aug 3, 2026 1612 Season 8 of the Finding Peace Podcast with host Troy L. Love explores why we sometimes feel worse after a conflict or panic has passed, and how the nervous system makes room for deeper emotions like shame, grief, and loneliness. This episode explains the difference between guilt and shame, uses a real-life example to show how post-activation emotions surface, and offers simple, trauma-informed too
Repair, Not Perfection: How Healing Looks After Dysregulation
Repair, Not Perfection: How Healing Looks After Dysregulation Jul 27, 2026 1812 Season 8 of the Finding Peace Podcast shares trauma-informed, practical tools for everyday life. In this episode, Troy L. Love explains that healing isn’t about never becoming dysregulated; it’s about recognizing activation, regulating your nervous system, and returning with compassion. He offers four clear steps—regulate before you analyze, name what happened, take responsibility for the impact,
Trauma-Informed Evening Shutdown: Invite Rest, Not Rush
Trauma-Informed Evening Shutdown: Invite Rest, Not Rush Jul 20, 2026 1061 Season 8 of the Finding Peace Podcast offers practical, trauma-informed tools for everyday life. In this episode, Troy L. Love explains why the nervous system needs cues—completion, safety, and containment—to move from doing into resting, and he guides a simple evening shutdown practice to help you set aside unfinished worries. The short ritual includes writing a “Not tonight, tomorrow” list, choo

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