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What They Never Told Us

What They Never Told Us

Russell IV & Brandi 145 Episodes May 30, 2025

Each week Russell IV and Brandi talk about love, marriage, divorce, family, and everything in between. As reunited high school sweethearts, they share personal stories and differing opinions while reflecting on what they wish they had known before saying 'I do' the first time. The show mixes honest conversation with humor and practical insight. Listeners join them as they unpack the lessons and surprises behind relationships and commitment.

Episodes

THIS IS NOT GOODBYE...
THIS IS NOT GOODBYE... May 30, 2025 571 Send a textJoin Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! Support the show! Only $3/month!https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/newCheck out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4
Sexpisode Part 6: Staying Curious
Sexpisode Part 6: Staying Curious May 27, 2025 4201 Send a textIntimacy dwindling? Lacking spontaneity? This episode is for you!In this episode, Russell and Brandi discuss how they maintain their spark and connection outside the bedroom.  They dive into what it means for them to "stay curious", how seeing each other thrive in business/ministry fuels their spark, and how frequency does not necessarily reflect quality and so much more.Suppo
ASK R&B (LIVE EDITION)
ASK R&B (LIVE EDITION) May 22, 2025 4729 Send a textJoin Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! Support the show! Only $3/month!https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/newCheck out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4
Ask R&B: Real Relationship Advice for Couples, Singles, and Situationships
Ask R&B: Real Relationship Advice for Couples, Singles, and Situationships May 20, 2025 3981 Send a textIn this episode, we bring back a fan favorite: Ask R&B! We're answering your real relationship questions - from FaceTime etiquette and "bro code" to fizzling romance and the decision to stay or go.Whether you're single, married, in a situationship, or somewhere in between - this one's for you. No sugarcoating. Just real talk, real laughs, and honest advice f
Trust the Process...God Had a Plan!
Trust the Process...God Had a Plan! May 13, 2025 4298 Send a textIn this episode of What They Never Told Us, we're sharing the most personal parts of our journey - from first love to second chances, and the hard conversations in between.We open with a real, vulnerable moment: Russell wants another baby, but Brandi isn't open to trying again. Her painful history with miscarriages and the emotional toll that come with pregnancy loss makes try
Let's Talk Live: Dating After Divorce, Baby Mama's, and Red Flags
Let's Talk Live: Dating After Divorce, Baby Mama's, and Red Flags May 9, 2025 3843 Send a textDating after divorce is already complicated - now add baby mamas (and daddies), blended families, and red flags you wish you would've caught the first time around.In this episode of What They Never Told Us, we're talking all things post-divorce dating and we got the gang with us! - How do you deal with someone who has kids and a co-parenting situation?- Red flags when dating a
Divorced, and Dating Again
Divorced, and Dating Again May 6, 2025 5073 Send a textIn this episode, Russell and Brandi discuss the ups and downs of dating while divorced. They delve into the challenges and the benefits, and how their experiences shaped their current relationship.Support the show! Only $3/month!https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/newCheck out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9
The Get Back Is Worse!
The Get Back Is Worse! May 2, 2025 4514 Send a textJoin Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! Support the show! Only $3/month!https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/newCheck out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4
Are There Different Levels of Cheating?
Are There Different Levels of Cheating? Apr 29, 2025 4640 Send a textIn this week's episode, Russell and Brandi discuss a topic that has weaved it's way into almost every episode this season...Cheating!  This is one you don't wan to miss.  And did we mention, there might be a confession in here too! Check us out!Don't forget to join us live on Facebook on Thursday at 8:30pm ESTupport the show! Only $3/month!https://www.buzzsprout.com/
Blame It On R&B (LIVE)
Blame It On R&B (LIVE) Apr 24, 2025 4291 Send a textJoin Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! Support the show! Only $3/month!https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/newCheck out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4
Why Can't You Just Apologize??
Why Can't You Just Apologize?? Apr 17, 2025 3533 Send a textJoin Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! Support the show! Only $3/month!https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/newCheck out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4
The Power of Forgiveness
The Power of Forgiveness Apr 15, 2025 5902 Send a textIn this deeply candid episode of 'What They Never Told Us,' we dive into the nuanced world of apologies and forgiveness. Join us as we unpack our own experiences around saying 'I'm sorry,' exploring different apology languages, and the essential role of forgiveness in relationships. Whether it's dealing with day-to-day marital conflicts, navigating co-paren

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