The Rosbergs: Your Marriage Coaches
The Rosbergs: Your Marriage Coaches is hosted by Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg, known as America's Family Coaches. The podcast helps married couples explore whether there is more to marriage and who they can trust to speak into their relationship. Drawing on four decades of experience, the Rosbergs offer encouragement and practical tools for building a great marriage. They have authored many marriage resources and DVD series, with nearly one million copies in print worldwide and translations in over a dozen languages. Each episode aims to provide consistent hope and support as personal marriage coaches.
Episodes
Episode 50-How a Wife Can Help Her Husband Guard His Heart-Part 2
Send us Fan MailWhat if the way a wife shows up in her marriage is one of the greatest defenses against temptation her husband has? In this episode, Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg continue their conversation on marital integrity, equipping wives to speak truth in love, establish clear boundaries, and foster transparency that makes a marriage resilient against temptation. If you want a marriage that h
Episode 49-How a Wife Can Help Her Husband Guard His Heart-Part 1
Send us Fan MailWhat does it actually look like for a wife to help her husband become the man of integrity she needs him to be? In this episode, Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg explore the wife's unique and vital role in helping her husband guard his heart, unpacking how curiosity, grace, and emotional safety can open the door to the kind of vulnerability that strengthens a marriage. This convers
Episode 48-Ten Ways a Man Can Shore Up His Boundaries
Send us Fan MailWhat does it actually look like to be a man of uncompromising integrity? In this episode, Dr. Gary Rosberg delivers a direct and practical challenge to men on guarding their hearts, drawing from Proverbs to address everything from making a covenant with your eyes and eliminating secrecy, to seeking accountability before a small compromise becomes a catastrophic one. This conversati
Episode 47-Why a Man’s Private World Matters to His Wife
Send us Fan MailWhat does it actually mean to guard your heart, and what is at stake in your marriage when you don't? In this episode, Dr. Gary Rosberg unpacks how marital straying rarely begins with a dramatic decision, but rather with a series of small unguarded moments that quietly erode the covenant over time. If you want to build a marriage defined by faithfulness and emotional safety, t
Episode 46-You've Got More Marriage Questions. We've Got More Answers.
Send us Fan MailWhat makes a marriage thrive in the everyday moments? In this episode, Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg answer more real listener questions about showing respect, praying together as a couple, navigating conflict, and creating the emotional safety every marriage needs. Their practical advice will help you deepen trust, strengthen intimacy, and reconnect with your spouse.Make sure to sub
Episode 45-You've Got Marriage Questions. We've Got Answers.
Send us Fan MailWhat does it actually take to build a marriage that thrives for decades? In this episode, marriage coaches Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg answer real listener questions on everything from habits every newlywed should build, to what a deeply fulfilling marriage looks like after fifty years together. If you want a marriage rooted in faith, oneness, and lasting joy, this conversation is
Episode 44-Roomates or Lovers? Moving from Co-Existing to Connecting
Send us Fan MailMany marriages don’t drift apart because of a single crisis, but slowly over time—like a boat without an anchor. In this episode, Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg explore what happens when a marriage starts to feel like “roommates” instead of partners, and how emotional connection and vulnerability can quietly fade. They share practical, actionable ways couples can be intentional about
Episode 43-Companionate Love
Send us Fan MailIn this insightful conversation, Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg investigate why the happiest marriages are built less on passionate love and more on companionate love – a relationship marked by deep friendship and genuine enjoyment of one another. They share practical ways couples can strengthen their connection through meaningful conversations, shared experiences, and daily acts of w
Episode 42-The Art of Encouragement in Marriage (Part 2)
Send us Fan MailIn Part 2 of this engaging discussion, Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosbergexplain the art of encouragement in marriage, focusing onpractical ways couples can reconnect and build a strongerrelationship. Whether your marriage is thriving or facingchallenges, this episode offers practical wisdom for how to movefrom roommates to soulmates, honoring your spouse, andcultivating a relationship th
Episode 41-The Art of Encouragement in Marriage (Part 1)
Send us Fan MailIn Part 1 of this encouraging conversation on marriage, Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg share the powerful impact of speaking life and showing up for your spouse through every season. From practical ways to serve one another to offering support during hardship, failure, and everyday struggles, they remind couples that encouragement is essential for a healthy, thriving marriage. You’ll
Episode 40-Sabbath: God's Weekly Gift to Your Marriage
Send us Fan MailWhat if one day a week could actually reset your life—and your marriage? In this episode, Dr. Gary and Barbie unpack the true purpose of the Sabbath and why it’s not about restriction, but restoration. Through honest conversation and personal examples, they share how setting aside one day to rest, reconnect, and re-center on God can strengthen both your faith and your relationship.
Episode 39-No Shortcuts
Send us Fan MailShortcuts might get you home faster, but they won’t build a strong marriage. In a culture chasing comfort and quick fixes, Dr. Gary and Barbie unpack how hardship produces patience and forces the kind of honest conversations that shape both our relationships and our character. From the quiet drift of distance to the temptation to take the easy way out, they reveal how integrity and
Episode 38-Recipe for Two Chairs
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg explore how couples can create genuine connection—even when they’ve never had difficult conversations before. Using the “two chairs” metaphor, they explain when and how to sit down, what to expect, and practical steps for turning a simple conversation into meaningful connection. Tune in for a clear, actionable recipe to help you and your
Episode 37-Quick Repairs
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg share practical steps couples can use to repair their marriage quickly and keep conflict from lingering. They explain simple repair techniques, how to regulate your emotions during heated moments, and a calm, Japanese-inspired approach—using pause and space—to de-escalate disagreements. You’ll learn why tone often matters more than the t
Episode 36-Some Like It Hot (Part 2)
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg tackle one of the most sensitive—and most important—topics in marriage: how to talk about your sex life in a healthy, life-giving way. With honesty and practical wisdom, they unpack the powerful role of non-sexual touch, why it ranks as a top need for women, and how simple daily connection can refresh a wife’s spirit. They also address w
Episode 35-Some Like It Hot (Part 1)
Send us Fan MailA godly marriage isn’t built upon great sex, but great sex is cultivated within a godly marriage. In this episode, your marriage coaches, Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg talk about moving past awkwardness and learn how to actually talk about sex, expectations, and emotional needs. They unpack the differences between men and women and give practical ways spouses can care for each other
Episode 34-Does Encouragement Change Your Brain?
Send us Fan MailEncouragement between husbands and wives isn’t just good practice—it’s God’s design for connection and it’s a powerful investment in your marriage. In this conversation, Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg unpack how affirming and supporting your spouse’s dreams builds unity, while discouragement can create emotional distance and insecurity. They explore how encouragement calms the nervous
Episode 33-Could 39 Minutes Per Day Change Your Wife's Marriage Experience?
Send us Fan MailWhat if 39 intentional minutes a day could radically change your marriage? In this episode, Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg unpack how small, daily choices can rebuild emotional connection and close the distance that often grows from lack of intention. They challenge husbands to be present, to truly listen, and to create a safe space where their wives feel seen, heard, and emotionally
Episode 32-How to be the Husband of a Happy Wife
Send us Fan MailWhat if understanding your wife’s heart could bring more joy, healing, and connection into your home? Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg share ten practical, faith-filled ways for husbands to stay deeply connected to their wives and strengthen their marriages. From laughter and friendship to affection, loyalty, and intentional communication, they unpack what it looks like to love your wif
Episode 31-How to be the Wife of a Happy Husband
Send us Fan MailLooking for practical, heart-filled ways to strengthen your marriage? Join Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg as they share encouragement and biblical wisdom for wives, offering gentle guidance on how to speak life, show appreciation, and create a peaceful home. They dive into the importance of initiating affection, honoring your husband’s hard work, and supporting his dreams, helping you
Episode 30-What Have You Done for Your Marriage Today?
Send us Fan MailIf your marriage feels stuck, these four research-backed practices could reignite connection faster than you think. In this episode, Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg unpack the four key traits they’ve seen consistently in couples who are still deeply in love after 21 years or more of marriage. They break down why both sexual and non-sexual touch matter, how choosing to see the good in y
Episode 29-The Five Stages of Marriage
Send us Fan MailIn this powerful episode, Gary and Barbie Rosberg unpack the five stages of marriage—from the early infatuation and all its butterflies to the lasting legacy God intends for every couple. They explain why conflict isn’t something to avoid but a tool for deeper unity, warning that “unresolved conflict is the quicksand of erosion” when left unaddressed. The Rosbergs walk through the
Episode 28-The Four Styles of Marriage: Finding God's Best
Send us Fan MailDo you know what your marriage style is? Whether you have a good idea or you’re looking at this question with a blank stare, Dr. Gary and Barbie are here to walk you through the 4 marriage styles most couples fall into: Independent, Dependent, Codependent, and Interdependent. Don’t worry if this looks like Greek - the Rosbergs will explain each of these styles and give examples to
Episode 27-How to Resolve Conflict in a God Centered Way
Send us Fan MailNo matter how long you’ve been married, you’ve probably realized by now that your spouse is imperfect (and they’ve realized you are, too), so, some conflict is inevitable. And depending on your personality, winning those conflicts may supersede your desire for forgiveness - which can cause some serious problems. As followers of Christ, we are commanded to be at peace with everyone,
Episode 26-Six Sneaky Marriage Saboteurs
Send us Fan MailIf someone were deliberately sabotaging your marriage, wouldn’t you want to know - and take a stand against them? Dr. Gary and Barbie have repeatedly shared how Satan hates the biblical covenant of marriage and will come against it whenever he can, but that doesn't mean it will be an obvious attack. More often than not, it’s the sneaky little saboteurs that break down our marr
Episode 25-Striving to Be a 2% Marriage: Fully Embracing the Day
Send us Fan Mail“We want to surrender to Christ so He can have His way in our marriage.” -Dr. Gary Rosberg Only 2% of marriages make it to 60 years—but yours can be one of them! In this episode, Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg share powerful insights on building a marriage that lasts a lifetime. They reveal what sets thriving couples apart: choosing understanding over winning arguments, prioritizing y
Episode 24-Looking for Intimacy in all the Right Places
Send us Fan MailWant to take your marriage from good to great? In this episode, Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg share 10 practical (and powerful!) ways to spark intentional intimacy with your spouse. Whether you’ve been married for 5 minutes, 5 years, or 50 years, their wisdom will help you strengthen emotional security, build resilience, and enjoy more connection. From simple weekly date nights to ce
Episode 23-Family Rituals that Build Lasting Love
Send us Fan MailIf you have kids, you know that they watch your every move. As they get older, they call you out, model your behavior, and base a lot of their decisions on the way you raised them - which means that there needs to be intentionality when it comes to how your family operates. You and your spouse need to decide what values, traditions, or, as Barbie and Dr. Gary call them, family ritu
Episode 22-Secrets of 50 Year Marriages: Building a Love that Last a Lifetime
Send us Fan MailFresh off their 50th wedding anniversary, Barbie and Dr. Gary have collected some of their evergreen marriage secrets to share, whether you’re 5 months or 20 years in. You may not be surprised to hear that having shared values as a couple, including the importance of prayer together, is backed by numerous studies to improve marital success - and if prayer isn’t your normal, don’t w
Episode 21-Dating Your Mate
Send us Fan MailThe idea of “dating your mate” isn’t new; most therapists, marriage retreats, family counselors, and podcasts (hey there, thanks for listening) all tout the benefits of having time for just the two of you, but what do you talk about if you actually make it happen? What exactly are you supposed to do? And ultimately, how do you make your dates valuable, contributing to the long-term
Episode 20-The E Word: The Power of Encourgement
Send us Fan MailWhether we admit it or not, we all need a little encouragement from time to time. But do we fully understand the vital role that it plays in a safe and trusting marriage? Dr. Gary and Barbie share powerful testimonies of the impact of encouragement and what can happen when we speak life to our spouse long-term. Like most skills, encouragement is learned, so if you’re feeling inadeq
Episode 19-Our Tips for 50 Years of Marital Bliss
Send us Fan MailFor today’s special edition of Your Marriage Coaches, Dr. Gary and Barbie reflect on 50 (yes, 50!) years of marriage. From wedding-day measles to 12 grandkids and counting, Dr. Gary and Barbie have experienced just about everything a marriage can, and today they are sharing their best advice with you, no matter where you are on the journey. Listen to your “elders” folks (just kiddi
Episode 18-The Importance of Honoring Your Wife
Send us Fan MailHusbands, how often do you pause and think of the ways you are honoring your wife? Do you know what honor looks like for your wife, specifically? Whether you’re engaged, a newlywed, or 30 years in, learning the unique ways your wife feels honored, loved, and cared for is always worth the time investment. Today, Barbie and Dr. Gary unpack how to connect with your wife in ways that,
Episode 17-Secrets of the Man Code
Send us Fan MailWives, does your husband ever seem like a complete mystery to you? Does his silent, stoic facade leave you guessing how he really feels? Never fear - Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg are here! Today, your marriage coaches reveal “Secrets of the Man Code” to help you better understand the man you married and learn things like: what he really needs to hear you say, why he stops talking wh
Episode 16-Winning Your Wife Back
Send us Fan MailToday, Dr. Gary and Barbie respond to a listener asking for advice on how to win his wife back after admitting neglect and not loving her in the way he should. As heartbreaking as this situation is, it’s not uncommon. Fortunately, Dr. Gary and Barbie have the wisdom, encouragement, and, as always, practical steps towards restoration. If this isn’t the circumstance you’re in, you ma
Episode 15-The Three Hardest Words to say in a Marriage-Part 2
Send us Fan MailDo you know the three hardest words to say in your marriage? Believe it or not, it’s not “I am sorry”, though those are difficult - it’s actually “I forgive you”. In their last episode, Dr. Gary and Barbie began to unpack the steps towards true forgiveness, dispelling myths around this virtue along the way. Today, Dr. Gary and Barbie look at the vital steps that must be taken befor
Episode 14-The Three Hardest Words to say in a Marriage-Part 1
Send us Fan MailDo you know the three hardest words to say in your marriage? Believe it or not, it’s not “I am sorry”, though those are difficult - it’s actually “I forgive you”. Few words are more loaded than these, and today, Dr. Gary and Barbie begin to unpack the steps towards true forgiveness, dispelling myths around this virtue along the way. With great compassion and encouragement, Dr. Gary
Episode 13-Come on Baby Light my Fire! Part 2
Send us Fan MailDr. Gary and Barbie are back with a special Part 2 all about stoking the fire of your marriage! After almost 50 years of marriage, Dr. Gary and Barbie have been through it all - the ups, downs, inside-outs, and flat-out miraculous - and they know what it takes to keep the embers burning in your relationship: Emotional honesty, depth of intimacy, and appreciation for one another. An
Episode 12-Come on Baby Light my Fire! Part 1
Send us Fan MailDoes it feel like the North Pole in your marriage? Are you desperate for a flicker of heat? Grab some kindling and matches because Dr. Gary and Barbie are about to teach you how to LIGHT THAT FIRE! Listen in for practical, actionable tips to thaw out your marriage and get back to what you really want: emotional honesty, depth of intimacy, and appreciation for one another. Contrary
Episode 11-Better Than Yourself
Send us Fan MailDo nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.Philippians 2:3-4Many of us are familiar with this passage in scripture. We understand this idea “to be of service to others and treat them better than ourselves” - but when it’s the perso
Episode 10-The Power of Two Chairs: Connecting with Your Spouse on an Intentional Level
Send us Fan MailHealthy marriages are full of intention: intention to praise each other, intention to serve, intention to communicate, and the list goes on. The uncomfortable truth is that if we become passive in our relationship, indifference can creep in and lead to apathy - and as Dr. Gary and Barbie share today, apathy is the biggest marriage killer. So, how do we combat apathy and indifferenc
Episode 9-Breaking the Crazy Making Cycle
Send us Fan MailHave you ever found yourself in the middle of the same old argument? Something triggers it and you both fall into the same pattern of: confronting, blaming, defending, disrespecting, and…dang. You’re no closer to a resolution and you’re even more distant from your spouse. The Rosbergs call this the Crazy Making Cycle, and man, we have ALL been there. Luckily, Dr. Gary and Barbie ha
Episode 8-Deep Spiritual Intimacy in Marriage
Send us Fan MailYou and your spouse may each read your Bible, pray individually, and attend church as a family, but do you have true spiritual intimacy with one another? What is spiritual intimacy? Today, Dr. Gary and Barbie explain the spiritual needs that each husband and wife secretly desire and how you can support one another as you grow in Christ. If there’s a part of you that wonders if ther
Episode 7-An Attitude of Gratitude
Send us Fan MailWhen walking through the darkness of pain, loss, financial hardships, or marital stress, it can seem impossible to express gratitude. When we are hurting it feels unnatural to shout a ‘Thank you, God!’, but when we force ourselves to count the blessings around us - even the basics of breath in our lungs to food on our table - things shift in our spirit and the atmosphere around us.
Episode 6-Being Your Spouse's Best Friend
Send us Fan MailWho would you call your best friend? Would your spouse be at the top of that list? For some, it’s an easy “yes,” but for others, that question stirs a longing for something more. In this episode, Dr. Gary and Barbie explore the essential roles of friendship and companionship in marriage. They’ll share insights on how to cultivate trust, reignite excitement, and build a love that’s
Episode 5-12 Steps to Having an Affair-Part 3
Send us Fan MailToday, Dr. Gary and Barbie continue the third installment of their series, 12 Steps to Having an Affair. Today, Gary and Barbie discuss steps 7-12: Purposeful Isolating, Pleasurable Isolating, Affectionate Embracing, Passionate Embracing, Capitulation, and Acceptance. However, this series is also one of encouragement and hope! Gary and Barbie emphasize that if you’ve ever found you
Episode 4-12 Steps to Having an Affair-Part 2
Send us Fan MailToday, Dr. Gary and Barbie continue the second installment of their series, 12 Steps to Having an Affair. Each episode will cover the slow and (sometimes innocent) steps that lead to infidelity if left unchecked. However, this series is also one of encouragement and hope! Today, Gary and Barbie discuss steps 3-6: Innocent Meeting, Intentional Meeting, Public Lingering, and Private
Episode 3-12 Steps to Having an Affair-Part 1
Send us Fan MailMost married couples believe that an affair could never happen to them…but the Rosbergs humbly suggest that that thought is naive. Beginning with today’s episode, Dr. Gary and Barbie will begin a series on the 12 steps that lead to an affair and the biblically based, intentional actions every married couple can take, together and individually, to avoid this outcome. The first two s
Episode 2-Could I Be Cheating on My Marriage?
Send us Fan MailJoin Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg, Americas Family Coaches, who bring four decades of equipping marriages across the US and internationally for this podcast to equip you and your marriage with encouragement and tools for a great marriage. The Rosbergs, Gold Medallion winners, have written over a dozen prominent marriage resources and DVD series with about 1 million total resources d
Episode 1-Could There Be More in Our Marriage?
Send us Fan MailJoin Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg, Americas Family Coaches, who bring four decades of equipping marriages across the US and internationally for this podcast to equip you and your marriage with encouragement and tools for a great marriage. The Rosbergs, Gold Medallion winners, have written over a dozen prominent marriage resources and DVD series with about 1 million total resources d
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